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<h1 dir="ltr">51 Best Questions to Ask Family Members</h1>
<p dir="ltr">Family is one of the most important pillars in our lives. Asking these questions can strengthen bonds, improve understanding of them as a person, and create lasting memories. Whether you're hosting a family gathering or simply looking to connect on a deeper level, here are 51 thought-provoking questions to ask your family members. Before you scroll to the tips, quickly read my 3 tips that will help you.</p>
<h2>3 Quick Tips for Asking Questions:</h2>
<p>	1. <strong>Show that you're interested:</strong> If you show you're interested, they'll have more fun. If they're hesitant, <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/the-top-7-excuses-family-give-for-not-telling-their-stories/" title="The Top 7 Excuses Family Give for Not Telling Their Stories">here are some tips to convince them it's worth it</a>.<br />
	2. <strong>Follow the Flow of the Conversation:</strong> While having prepared questions is good, be <strong>very</strong> flexible. Let the conversation flow naturally. Follow up on intriguing details or stories that emerge. Those are usually the best ones.<br />
	3. <strong>Respect Their Boundaries</strong>: Be sensitive to topics that may be difficult to discuss. Sometimes your family members may want to discuss them, sometimes they won't. If they don't, reassure them and move on. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/5-tips-for-collecting-family-stories/" title="Tips for Questions">Here are more tips if you're interested.</a></p>
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<p>We've helped thousands of people capture their stories through questions, so we like to think we know a thing or two about what makes a great question.<br />
	These questions are in no particular order and I encourage you to skip any that don't apply or that you or your family member are not interested in.</p>
<p><strong>(Scroll to the end to see a free way to record their responses)</strong></p>
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	Questions about Childhood</h3>
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<li value="1">What is your earliest memory?</li>
<li value="2">Describe a typical family meal during your childhood.</li>
<li value="3">What traditions or rituals did your family follow?</li>
<li value="4">Who were you closest to in your family growing up?</li>
<li value="5">What did you do for fun as a child?</li>
<li value="6">How did your family celebrate holidays or special occasions?</li>
<li value="7">What chores or responsibilities did you have as a child?</li>
<li value="8">What was the neighborhood you grew up in like?</li>
<li value="9">What was a typical day like for you during your childhood?</li>
<li value="10">How did your childhood environment shape your personality?</li>
<li value="11">What were some of your favorite places to visit with your family when you were young?</li>
<li value="12">How did your family handle difficult times or challenges during your childhood?</li>
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<h3 dir="ltr">Questions about School</h3>
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<li value="13">What was your favorite subject in school, and why?</li>
<li value="14">What challenges did you face in school?</li>
<li value="15">How did you get to and from school?</li>
<li value="16">What was an important lesson you learned during your school years?</li>
<li value="17">What kind of student were you? Did you enjoy school?</li>
<li value="18">What were your relationships with your classmates like?</li>
<li value="19">How did your school experiences influence your future career choices?</li>
<li value="20">What was a memorable school event or trip?</li>
<li value="21">How did you manage the pressure or stress of schoolwork?</li>
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<h3 dir="ltr">Questions about Relationships &amp; Marriage</h3>
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<li value="22">How did you meet your spouse/partner?</li>
<li value="23">What was your wedding day like?</li>
<li value="24">What have been some of the joys and challenges of marriage?</li>
<li value="25">How did you and your spouse navigate tough times?</li>
<li value="26">What advice would you give about building a strong relationship?</li>
<li value="27">How did you know your partner was the right one for you?</li>
<li value="28">What are some of the important qualities in a partner?</li>
<li value="29">How did you and your partner keep the romance alive?</li>
<li value="30">How have your views on relationships changed over the years?</li>
<li value="31">What role did your family play in your relationship or marriage?</li>
<li value="32">How did your relationship evolve over time?</li>
<li value="33">What is a favorite memory from your early days of dating?</li>
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<h3 dir="ltr">Questions about Work</h3>
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<li value="34">What was your first job, and how did you feel about it?</li>
<li value="35">What were some rewarding parts of your work?</li>
<li value="36">How did your work impact your personal life?</li>
<li value="37">What career advice would you give to someone starting out in your field?</li>
<li value="38">What were some of your career achievements?</li>
<li value="39">How did you balance work and family life?</li>
<li value="40">Did you ever consider changing careers? Why or why not?</li>
<li value="41">What was a significant challenge you faced in your career, and how did you overcome it?</li>
<li value="42">How did your career path influence your identity or sense of self?</li>
<li value="43">What was a proud moment in your professional life?</li>
<li value="44">How did you decide on your career path?</li>
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<h3 dir="ltr">Questions about Hobbies &amp; Interests</h3>
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<li value="45">What hobbies or interests have been a constant in your life?</li>
<li value="46">How did you get started in your favorite hobby?</li>
<li value="47">What did you enjoy about your favorite pastime?</li>
<li value="48">How have your hobbies influenced your friendships or social life?</li>
<li value="49">What new hobbies or skills have you picked up later in life?</li>
<li value="50">What hobby or interest would you like to explore more in the future?</li>
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<h3 dir="ltr"><b><strong>Bonus Question</strong></b></h3>
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<li value="51">Is there anything you’ve never shared that you’d like to talk about?</li>
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<p>Engaging with these questions (<a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/10-questions-to-ask-yourself-for-a-happy-life%C2%A0/" title="10 Questions to Ask Yourself for a Happy Life ">or these ones about happiness</a>, or <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/25-best-questions-to-ask-your-grandparents" title="25 Best Questions to Ask Your Grandparents">these ones specific to grandparent</a>s) will help you connect on a deeper level. Here are questions<br />
	You're doing a wonderful thing. So grab a cup of tea (or coffee in my case), sit down with your loved ones, and start the dialogue! </p>
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<p><strong>What to do with the Questions and Answers after you ask:</strong><br />
	Instead of asking and letting their responses be forgotten, I strongly encourage you to use <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="My Stories Matter">My Stories Matter</a> to preserve them. It's free. You can record their voice. You can make a book out of their responses and they'll love you for it.</p>
<p>...and we have even more questions that you can ask them. </p>


Strengthening Family Bonds Through Meaningful Conversation

51 Best Questions to Ask Family Members

The Top 7 Excuses Family Give for Not Telling Their Stories

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<p dir="ltr">Family legacies are the <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/discover-why-your-stories-matter" title="Family Legacy">stories</a>, values, traditions, and <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/how-to-bring-a-memory-to-life/" title="Family Legacy">memories</a> passed down from generation to generation. They are the tangible and intangible things that make up a family's history and help create a sense of continuity and familiarity.</p>
<p dir="ltr">A family legacy is a glue that binds a family together and provides a sense of identity, belonging and purpose. </p>
<h1 dir="ltr">Benefits of a Family Legacy</h1>
<p>There are many benefits of having a family legacy, such as:  </p>
<h3 dir="ltr">Connecting Us to the Past</h3>
<p>Learning about our family's history and traditions, we understand who we are and where we come from. This connection to our past is vital for younger generations who may feel disconnected from their family's history and traditions. </p>
<p>According to the <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2013/03/17/fashion/the-family-stories-that-bind-us-this-life.html" title="Family Legacy">New York Times</a>, “The more children knew about their family’s history, the stronger their sense of control over their lives, the higher their self-esteem, and the more successfully they believed their families functioned.”</p>
<h3 dir="ltr">Helping Us Understand Our Family's Beliefs </h3>
<p>By sharing values, experiences, and traditions, we gain insight into why we do what we do and what is <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/discover-why-your-stories-matter" title="Family Legacy">important</a> to us. In today's fast-paced and ever-changing world, losing sight of our values and beliefs is easy. </p>
<p>According to a study by professors <a href="https://www.echostories.com/family-stories-and-the-path-to-happiness/#:~:text=The%20study%20by%20professors%20Robyn,%2Dunderstanding%20and%20self%2Desteem." title="Family Legacy">Robyn Fivush and Marshall Duke</a>, “children who hear stories about stressful events in their families’ past told in an emotionally expressive way have higher levels of self-understanding and self-esteem."</p>
<p>Further research at <a href="https://news.emory.edu/stories/2020/04/esc_covid_19_family_stories/campus.html" title="Family Legacy">Emory University</a> found that 10-12-year-olds coped better when their families talked more coherently and emotionally about difficult family times than families that told less emotionally expressive and coherent stories about their challenges.</p>
<h3 dir="ltr">Being a Source of Inspiration and Motivation for Future Generations </h3>
<p>We can pass on valuable lessons and insights by sharing our successes and failures. This helps younger generations navigate <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/10-questions-to-ask-yourself-for-a-happy-life%C2%A0/" title="Family Legacy">life's challenges and overcome obstacles</a>. Family legacies instill pride and responsibility in future generations, encouraging them to continue the <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-write-your-legacy-story" title="Family Legacy">legacy</a> and pass it on to their children and grandchildren. </p>
<p>According to research at <a href="https://www.parentsleague.org/sites/default/files/Fivush_2021.pdf" title="Family Legacy">Emory University</a>, adolescents and young adults who know their <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/preserve-your-grandparents%E2%80%99-memories-on-my-stories-matter%C2%A0/" title="Family Legacy">grandparents</a>' lives, including details like where they were born, where they attended school, and what kind of work they did as children, have higher self-esteem, social skills, and academic competence, as well as lower levels of depression, anxiety, and aggressive behavior. They also have a greater sense of life's meaning and purpose. </p>
<h3 dir="ltr">Providing Comfort and Connection During Difficult Times</h3>
<p>A solid family legacy can provide stability and continuity when faced with a <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/8-creative-ways-to-keep-the-memory-of-a-loved-one-alive/" title="Family Legacy">loss</a> or a <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/a-celebration-of-life-stories-book/" title="Family Legacy">significant life transition</a>. They remind us that we are part of something larger than ourselves and have a rich history and tradition. </p>
<p>According to <a href="https://billhigh.com/legacy/family-stories-secret-sauce-keeping-together/#" title="Family Legacy">Bill High</a>, children who understand they are part of a bigger family narrative feel more confident and like they belong. They know they are a part of something greater than themselves and have a strong sense of "intergenerational self."</p>
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<h1 dir="ltr">How to Create Your Family Legacy</h1>
<p>There are a few steps you can follow to create your very own family legacy: </p>
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<h3 dir="ltr" role="presentation">Reflect on your family's history and traditions </h3>
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<p dir="ltr">To do this, research your family's ancestry, talk to older relatives, and gather photos and memorabilia! You will better understand your <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/the-importance-of-creating-family-memories%C2%A0/" title="Family Legacy">family's roots and experiences</a> shaping your values and beliefs.</p>
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<h3 dir="ltr" role="presentation">Identify fundamental values and principles necessary to your family </h3>
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<p dir="ltr">These include hard work, perseverance, honesty, and kindness. By identifying these values, you can create a roadmap for your family's legacy, guiding future generations to live their lives.</p>
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<p dir="ltr">You can write a <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/how-to-create-a-life-stories-book%C2%A0/" title="Family Legacy">family history book</a>, create a family tree, or document recipes and traditions. One platform for sharing <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/5-tips-for-collecting-family-stories/" title="Family Legacy">family stories</a> and legacies is My Stories Matter, which allows families to share their stories, traditions, and experiences <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/need-a-facebook-alternative/" title="Family Legacy">safely and securely</a>.</p>
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<p dir="ltr">Suppose you’re interested in collaborating on a family legacy with your family. In that case, use My Stories Matter, designed for collaboration - a fun and meaningful way to bring your <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/the-importance-of-recording-your-parent's-life-stories--how-my-stories-matter-can-help/" title="Family Legacy">family</a> together and strengthen your family's bonds.</p>
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<h1 dir="ltr">Examples of Family Legacies</h1>
<p>Family legacies take many forms, and there is no right or wrong way to create one. Here are a few examples of family legacies that you may find inspiring:</p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Stories and Experiences: <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/how-to-relive-a-memory/" title="Family Legacy">Recount </a>family history, such as how your grandparents met or when your family went camping and encountered a grizzly bear while on a hike!</p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Recipes and Food Traditions: Share <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/scent-of-a-memory-and-the-proust-effect/" title="Family Legacy">recipes</a> for your favorite dishes growing up, like your grandmother’s famous peach cobbler, accompanied by family games! Document the history of family meals, and pass down cooking techniques and tips.</p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Photographs and Other Memorabilia: Create photo albums, display family heirlooms, and share stories about objects passed down through the generations. An example is a time capsule full of your family’s most treasured souvenirs, such as engagement rings, postcards, letters, etc.. </p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Family Rituals and Celebrations: Celebrate those beachy summer <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog?page=4" title="Family Legacy">holidays</a>, or <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/sharing-memories--5-unique-ways-you-haven't-thought-of" title="Family Legacy">share</a> family rituals such as that annual Christmas tree cutting or iconic family BBQ reunion with a grilling contest. </p>
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<h1 dir="ltr">Create Your Family Legacy on My Stories Matter</h1>
<p dir="ltr"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Family Legacy">My Stories Matter</a> allows families to create a safe and secure digital archive of their family <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/5-best-tips-for-capturing-life-stories/" title="Family Legacy">stories</a> and traditions, ensuring they are preserved and <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/the-importance-of-passing-down-life-lessons--how-my-stories-matter-can-help/" title="Family Legacy">passed down</a> to future generations. Your legacy can be a source of inspiration, guidance, and motivation for your children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. </p>
<p>So take the time to reflect on your family's history and traditions, and start <a href="https://linktr.ee/mystoriesmatter" title="Family Legacy">crafting</a> your family legacy today!</p>


The Glue that Binds a Family Together: Building a Family Legacy

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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80">Father's Day is approaching, and there's nothing quite like a Father's Day Life Stories Book filled with personal memories to honor the remarkable man in your life. </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/the-importance-of-recording-your-parent's-life-stories--how-my-stories-matter-can-help/" title="Father's Day book " type="Father's Day book ">Recording your Dad's stories</a> and memories is a thoughtful way to pay tribute to him, but it also doubles as an enjoyable bonding experience. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80">The Harris Poll polled over 2,000 adults in the U.S. to determine what will be on everyone's wish lists this year. According to the survey, 75% of Americans <a href="https://blog.faire.com/industry-insights/local-gifts-make-people-happy/" title="Father's Day book " type="Father's Day book ">prefer to give </a>unique holiday gifts, such as those with a story attached to them!</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80">In <a href="https://nypost.com/2019/11/15/most-americans-want-this-type-of-gift-for-the-holidays/" title="Father's Day book " type="Father's Day book ">another study</a>, presents that were seen as "heartfelt" and "personalized" were greatly preferred over generic gifts. People preferred these personal gifts even more than gift cards, with only 14% of respondents saying they'd choose a gift card over a sincere present. In addition, twice as many respondents preferred a uniquely personal gift over a generic one worth more than $100!</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80">To help you create your personalized Father’s Day gift, use My Stories Matter to turn your written memories into a custom Life Stories Book.</b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80">Create Your Father’s Day Life Stories Book on My Stories Matter </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80">My Stories Matter makes the process a breeze with its user-friendly platform. <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Father's Day book " type="Father's Day book ">Create an account</a> and invite your Dad to join. Then, share the link to the platform and guide him through recording his stories; choose from hundreds of prompts in My Stories Matter to encourage him to open up and share his most meaningful memories.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80">Once your dad has recorded his stories, you can help him organize them into a <a href="https://book.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Father's Day book " type="Father's Day book ">Father's Day Life Stories Book</a>. You can also enhance his stories with photos. With various designs and layout options to choose from, you can create a personalized Father's Day Life Stories Book that genuinely represents your dad's unique personality.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80">Use My Stories Matter to make the process more interactive. You can record stories in different settings, such as during a road trip, at a particular location that holds meaning for your Dad, or at an event you attend together. Believe it or not, according to <a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/toc/rpos20/current#.UzszK2RDtIw" title="Father's Day book " type="Father's Day book ">research</a>, people value <a href="https://qz.com/194381/money-cant-buy-happiness-at-least-not-the-way-youre-spending-it" title="Father's Day book " type="Father's Day book ">experiences more than gifts</a>!</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80">Another great feature of My Stories Matter is the ability to share the Father's Day Life Stories Book with others. In addition to printing a physical keepsake,  you can also digitally share his stories on My Stories Matter with family and friends.  </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80">You can also make it a family fun activity by making a game out of it, like creating a "guess the year" game, where you and your family will have to guess the year the stories took place and other fun trivia games!</b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80">What to Include in a Father’s Day Life Stories Book </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80">What to put in your <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/how-to-create-a-life-stories-book%C2%A0/" title="Father's Day book " type="Father's Day book ">Father's Day Life Stories Book</a> depends on what your Dad enjoys doing, his personality quirks, etc. You can include special mementos that are meaningful to your father, making it a truly one-of-a-kind gift. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80">Alternatively, you can talk about what your Dad means to you. For example: </b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80">Start by sharing some of your favorite <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/why-you-prefer-nostalgic-songs-from-your-teenage-years/" title="Father's Day book " type="Father's Day book ">childhood memories</a> with your Dad. Write about your fun times and what made those moments memorable.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80">Include some of your favorite family photos, especially ones that capture moments with your Dad. Write about the stories behind those photos and their significance to you.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80">Write letters or <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/7-must-have-tips-on-journaling%C2%A0/" title="Father's Day book " type="Father's Day book ">notes</a> to your Dad expressing your love and appreciation for him. Share what you admire most about him and how he has impacted your life.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80">If your Dad has a <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/scent-of-a-memory-and-the-proust-effect/" title="Father's Day book " type="Father's Day book ">favorite recipe</a> or activity you enjoy, include it in the book. This will show him that you value your time together and the memories you have created.</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80">My Stories Matter helps you elegantly communicate these ideas with our newly added <a href="https://linktr.ee/mystoriesmatter" title="Father's Day book " type="Father's Day book ">WritingHelper</a>. Don’t forget to take advantage of this feature when you sign up! </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-084a5301-7fff-cb27-eb9c-655476420e80">Creating a Father’s Day Life Stories Book is a great way to learn more about your Dad, preserve his <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/how-to-write-your-legacy-story/" title="Father's Day book " type="Father's Day book ">legacy</a> for future generations, and show him how much he means to you and your family. He’ll be so appreciative and delighted whether this gift is a surprise or a special project you both worked on together.  </b></p>


Gift Dad with a Special Father’s Day Life Stories Book 

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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-6e7324fc-7fff-1c9f-578b-4ebb95a9413f">Mother's Day is a special occasion to honor the woman who gave us life and love. One meaningful way to celebrate this day is to create a <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/gift-memory-book" title="memory book" type="memory book">Mother's Day Memory Book</a> filled with your mom's stories and memories. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-6e7324fc-7fff-1c9f-578b-4ebb95a9413f">Imagine sitting with your mom, drinking tea, and reminiscing over her life. You'll not only learn more about your mom, but you'll also have a chance to relive some of your own favorite memories! So, why not give the gift of memories as this Mother's Day gift? Creating a Memory Book is easy and fun on <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/gift-memory-book" title="memory book" type="memory book">My Stories Matter</a>!</b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-6e7324fc-7fff-1c9f-578b-4ebb95a9413f">The Perfect Mother’s Day Gift</b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-6e7324fc-7fff-1c9f-578b-4ebb95a9413f">How does it work? The process is simple: </b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-6e7324fc-7fff-1c9f-578b-4ebb95a9413f">Then, our team prints and ships her beautiful hardcover book!</b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-6e7324fc-7fff-1c9f-578b-4ebb95a9413f">And you don’t even have to worry about her photos being blurry or damaged - we restore them. After all, photos are the <a href="https://www.lifestorage.com/blog/storage/american-sentimentality-research-2018/" title="memory book" type="memory book">most sentimental objects we save</a>! Utilize our powerful photo enhancement service to breathe life into her old, faded photos. </b><b>Giving her a Memory book will be a tangible gift that she will value for years. But the fun doesn’t stop there; once the Memory Book is created, you can <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/sharing-memories-5-unique-ways-you-havent-thought" title="memory book" type="memory book">share</a> it with family and friends! </b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-6e7324fc-7fff-1c9f-578b-4ebb95a9413f">If you don’t have time to give a Memory Book this year, don’t worry. Another fun way to use My Stories Matter is to create a "guess who" game with your mom's stories. You can record your mom sharing stories about different people, such as her childhood friends, old co-workers, or even celebrities she's met. Once you record the stories, you can organize them and invite your family and friends to guess who the stories are about. </b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-6e7324fc-7fff-1c9f-578b-4ebb95a9413f">You can access My Stories Matter anywhere! This means that even if you can't be with your mother in person on Mother's Day, you can still create a unique Memory Book for her. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-6e7324fc-7fff-1c9f-578b-4ebb95a9413f">Another way to make the process more fun is to record your mother's stories in different places or settings. You can take My Stories Matter with you on a trip or to other sites with special meaning, such as the house she grew up in or a family vacation place. This will add an extra layer of significance to the stories in the book.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-6e7324fc-7fff-1c9f-578b-4ebb95a9413f">Save Your Mother’s Legacy  </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-6e7324fc-7fff-1c9f-578b-4ebb95a9413f">This year for your Mother's Day gift, a Memory Book is an excellent way to honor your mom and preserve her <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-write-your-legacy-story" title="memory book" type="memory book">legacy</a>. Create a permanent record of your mother's stories and memories for future generations to cherish and enjoy. You can also make the process easier with Concierge Interviews. For example, if your mom is not a fan of tech, is busy, or prefers talking over writing, we can handle everything for her! <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/concierge-life-stories" title="memory book" type="memory book">Get started</a> today.</b></p>


Create a Memory Book For Mother’s Day

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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f9b7fb2c-7fff-106b-f111-ef69ba93c22d">Family memories are some of the most precious things we have in life. They are the <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/5-tips-for-collecting-family-stories/" title="family memories">stories</a>, moments, and experiences that bring us together, remind us of our origins, and shape who we are. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f9b7fb2c-7fff-106b-f111-ef69ba93c22d">What better way to preserve these memories than by <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/4-reasons-to-record-your-life/" title="family memories">recording</a> them with My Stories Matter? My Stories Matter’s vast collection of prompts and easy-to-use interface makes it easy for the whole family to get involved. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f9b7fb2c-7fff-106b-f111-ef69ba93c22d">Here are the key reasons why creating family memories today is so important! Get ready to sit down with <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/preserve-your-grandparents%E2%80%99-memories-on-my-stories-matter%C2%A0/" title="family memories">grandparents</a> and <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/the-importance-of-recording-your-parent's-life-stories--how-my-stories-matter-can-help/" title="family memories">parents</a>, ask them about their past and life experiences, and piece together your family history puzzle. </b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f9b7fb2c-7fff-106b-f111-ef69ba93c22d">Discover Your Roots </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f9b7fb2c-7fff-106b-f111-ef69ba93c22d">You'll learn more about your family and your place in the family. Recording and <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/how-to-relive-a-memory/" title="family memories">reliving memories</a> are integral to the process. At My Stories Matter, we design our platform to be supportive and empowering. <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/sharing-memories--5-unique-ways-you-haven't-thought-of/" title="family memories">Sharing your family memories</a> can be a powerful way to <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/7-fun-ways-to-connect-with-family-during-the-holidays/" title="family memories">connect with others</a> and inspire them to explore their family's past. </b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f9b7fb2c-7fff-106b-f111-ef69ba93c22d">Keep a Personalized Family Life Stories Book </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f9b7fb2c-7fff-106b-f111-ef69ba93c22d">My Stories Matter's design service will make your <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/how-to-create-a-life-stories-book%C2%A0/" title="family memories">family Life Stories Book</a> look stunning. Our experienced writers and designers will work with you to create a beautiful, <a href="https://book.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="family memories">personal family Life Stories Book</a> that you can treasure for years. Once your family Life Stories Book is complete, you can share it with loved ones or even make it public. You can also print a physical copy of your family memories, where you can flip through the pages whenever you want and even pass it down to <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/how-to-write-your-legacy-story/" title="family memories">future generations</a>. </b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f9b7fb2c-7fff-106b-f111-ef69ba93c22d">Preserve Your Family Memories on My Stories Matter </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f9b7fb2c-7fff-106b-f111-ef69ba93c22d">Recording family memories with My Stories Matter is not only easy, but it's also a ton of fun. For example, when your grandma tells you how she met your grandpa for the first time or when your family recounts a family vacation. These moments can live in the pages of your family Life Stories Book.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f9b7fb2c-7fff-106b-f111-ef69ba93c22d">What are you waiting for? Don't let your family memories <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/6-ways-to-prevent-memory-loss-(and-it-has-nothing-to-do-with-age)/" title="family memories">fade away</a>. Gather the family, <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="family memories">fire up</a> the My Stories Matter platform, and start recording them today! Trust us; your future self will thank you.</b></p>


The Importance of Creating Family Memories 

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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Recording your parent's life stories is a meaningful way to preserve their memories and experiences for the long term. You can revisit those memories anytime and share your parent's experiences with others. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">But with so many options for recording your parent's life stories, it can be overwhelming to know where to start!</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog" title="my stories matter">My Stories Matter</a> makes it easy and fun for parents to document and share their life stories online. With its user-friendly interface and secure platform, My Stories Matter provides a safe and private environment for recording your parent's life stories. This can be a great way to relive special moments with your parents, creating a sense of comfort and nostalgia.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Here are several great reasons to record your parent’s life stories!</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Bond with Your Parents </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Anyone you choose may read your stories; unlike most social media apps, My Stories Matter is tailored to your privacy. With My Stories Matter, you can share their stories with specific friends and family members or keep them private for enjoyment. This can be a great way to connect with others with similar experiences and provide a sense of community. </b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Gain Insight </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Recording your parent's life stories allows you to learn more about your parent's experiences and life journeys. By documenting their stories, you can gain insight into their lives and the world they grew up in. This can provide valuable context for your own life, and it can also help you to understand your parent's perspective better.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Preserve Memories </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Recording your parent's life stories can be a valuable tool for preserving their memories for future generations. By recording their memories on My Stories Matter, you can ensure that they are kept long-term and that future generations can enjoy them</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Document Your Parent’s Life on My Stories Matter </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">How do you encourage your parents to document their life stories? One way is to talk to them and explain the benefits. You can also offer to help them with the process by providing a journal or recording device or sitting down with them and asking questions about their experiences. </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">My Stories Matter lets you preserve all memories, not just your parents or <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/preserve-your-grandparents%E2%80%99-memories-on-my-stories-matter%C2%A0" title="parents life stories">grandparents</a>! While everything is fresh, start recording memories today and create a lasting family legacy. </b></p>


The Importance of Recording Your Parent's Life Stories: How My Stories Matter Can Help


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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">As our grandparent's age, it's essential to ensure their memories are preserved for future generations. Our grandparents have a wealth of knowledge and experiences, and their memories can give us a unique glimpse into the past. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">But as time passes, these memories can fade and be lost forever. Fortunately, here are a few tips on preserving your grandparents’ memories. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">Let’s go! </b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">Ask Questions</b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">One of the best ways to preserve a grandparent's memories is to ask about their childhood, experiences during major historical events, or daily life. Asking questions can help jog our grandparent's memory and allow them to share their experiences with us.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">Record Their Stories </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">Another way to preserve a grandparent's memories is to record them. This can be a written journal, voice recording, or video. Recording their stories allows us to capture their memories and enjoy them.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">Share Their Stories</b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">In addition to recording their stories, it's also important to share them with others. Sharing a grandparent's memories with friends and family can help keep those memories alive and allow others to learn from and appreciate them. It can also be a great way to connect with others with similar experiences and foster a sense of community.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">Preserve your Grandparents’ Memories on My Stories Matter </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="grandparents' memories ">My Stories Matter</a> is an excellent resource for protecting a grandparent's memories. With its easy-to-use tools and secure platform, My Stories Matter makes it simple to record and share a grandparent's memories and stories.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">By asking questions, recording their stories, and sharing them with others, we can ensure our grandparents' memories are preserved for years to come. And with the help of a platform like My Stories Matter, preserving these memories can be fun and easy!</b></p>


Preserve your Grandparents’ Memories on My Stories Matter 

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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5">Have you ever asked yourself what would have happened if you had kept in touch with a particular person, asking that powerful question: “What if?” </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5">After all, in one major study, the <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/the-top-5-regrets-of-the-dying-(and-how-to-avoid-them)/" title="reach out">4th regret of passing away is</a>: “I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.” </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5">It’s essential to keep those connections alive, even if it means getting past the initial awkwardness of reaching out. Even as the holidays dwindle, it’s never too late!</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5">So today, My Stories Matter gives you four quick, creative ways to reach out to an old family member or friend.</b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5">Try Snail Mail</b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5">Handwritten notes, a letter, or a card are much appreciated and are more meaningful than texts, even if it’s brief or homemade. </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5">In the age of social media, this is more true than ever. Taking the time to write a letter shows that person how much you mean to them.</b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5">Initiate a Virtual Gathering </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5">Especially if that person lives on the other side of the world, initiating a virtual get-together is a low-key, great way to reconnect. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5">Your reunion can be a brunch, happy hour, game, or movie night. Or start a remote book club where you can discover a new author or genre together. </b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5">Share Recipes and Cook.</b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5">Cooking together can be a great bonding activity where you can recreate your favorite dishes. </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5">Smells you remember invoke<a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/scent-of-a-memory-and-the-proust-effect/" title="reach out"> those long-lost, treasured memories</a>. </b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5">Send them a Song </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5">Is there a song that makes you think of them or that you both used to listen to? Creating a collaborative playlist that you can add to is another excellent way to reconnect. </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5">It shows that they are still in your mind and heart in a touching way. <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/tapping-into-memories-with-music/" title="reach out">Music also stirs memories</a>; you can <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/why-you-prefer-nostalgic-songs-from-your-teenage-years/" title="reach out">share nostalgic songs</a>. </b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5">Stay Connected to Family and Friends with My Stories Matter</b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog" title="reach out">My Stories Matter</a> lets you collaborate in myriad ways, such as musically, with photos, written entries, and more! Only you and that person can reminisce in peace and privacy.</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog" title="reach out">My Stories Matter</a> reminds your loved one about events that shaped you both into who you are by stirring memories and utilizing the power of storytelling. </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5">Whether it’s helping your grandparent recall an old memory or a friend about a college experience, <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog" title="reach out">My Stories Matter</a> brings people together, closing the time gap.  </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-eb4d0b11-7fff-cdf5-491b-71152491aef5"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="reach out">Sign up</a> today for free! </b></p>


4 Creative Ways to Reach Out to an Old Family Member or Friend

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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">Passing down life lessons is an essential part of being a parent, mentor, or role model. By sharing our experiences and wisdom with the next generation, we can help them to navigate their own lives and make informed decisions. This can be a great way to give back and positively impact the world. But with so many life lessons to pass on, it can be overwhelming to know where to start.</b></p>

<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">My Stories Matter makes it easy and fun to document and share our life stories online. Its user-friendly interface and secure platform make it simple to capture and preserve our memories and experiences for the long term.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">By sharing our stories and experiences, we can foster a sense of community and support those going through similar experiences. This can be especially important for parents, who can use My Stories Matter to document their life lessons and share them with their children.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">Passing down life lessons allows us to reflect on our own experiences and learn from them. We can gain insight into our lives and the world around us. This can be a valuable tool for personal growth and development and help us better understand our perspectives and experiences.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">But what kind of life lessons should we be passing down? There are countless to pass on, but here are a few ideas to get you started:</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">The importance of hard work and perseverance</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">The value of education and lifelong learning</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">The power of positive thinking and attitude</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">The importance of taking care of your health and well-being</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">The importance of relationships and communication</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">The value of honesty and integrity</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">The power of forgiveness and letting go</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">The importance of staying true to yourself and your values</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">The value of giving back and helping others</b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">These are just a few examples of the many life lessons we can pass down to the next generation. Start using <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="My Stories Matter">My Stories Matter</a> today!</b></p>


The Importance of Passing Down Life Lessons: How My Stories Matter Can Help

<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">It’s that time of year again to reconnect and reminisce with family and friends! But are you tired of the same old routine? Are you trying to avoid those tense political debates between family members? </b></p>

<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">To create happy family memories, avoid strife and focus on similarities rather than differences. The end of the year is also a time of reflection and an occasion to reminisce about loved ones who are sadly no longer with us.</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>We’ve compiled a list of creative ways to enjoy the holiday season with <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/5-tips-for-collecting-family-stories/" title="holidays">family</a> and <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/5-best-tips-for-capturing-life-stories/" title="holidays ">friends</a> while making more memories!</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">Want to switch up the usual football game ritual after Christmas dinner? </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">Do something interactive for fun with the family. If you don’t have any board games, try charades. Any initial groans will turn into laughter in short order. Watch a holiday movie with popcorn and cocoa if no one's up for games! </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">A scavenger hunt or flag football are great outdoor options if the weather is nice.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">A campfire in the backyard is a beautiful way to spend time with loved ones and make s’mores - washed down with eggnog, cider, or hot chocolate!</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">This is an excellent opportunity to catch up with each other, and the warmth of the fire will create a cozy atmosphere.</b></p>
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<h1 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">Write Thank You Cards to Each Other</b></h1>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">Thanksgiving might be over, but it’s always time to be thankful for family and friends. Have everyone write their reasons for being grateful this year on index cards, then distribute them. The host gathers the cards, saves them in a jar of appreciation, and reads them aloud again next year! </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">This makes it easier for everyone to see their personal growth over the past year, like an annual time capsule. </b></p>
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<h1 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">Cook Together</b></h1>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">What is better than preparing a holiday meal together? Bring out Grandma's old cookbooks and show the kids how to cook those heirloom recipes! As a motivator, provide an irresistible prize - such as a dessert! </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">Or hold a friendly baking contest, an ideal approach to persuade your guests to pitch in and bring a sweet treat. </b></p>
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<h1 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">Make a Memory Quilt</b></h1>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">While watching holiday-themed movies with caramel popcorn, create a family memory quilt.</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">Turn old clothes from your loved ones into a patchwork quilt as a daily reminder of the warmth they bring to your heart. Even if a family member has passed, using pieces of clothing from them will help<a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/8-creative-ways-to-keep-the-memory-of-a-loved-one-alive/" title="family and friends "> keep their memory alive</a>.</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">Not only will you be creating something beautiful, but you’ll also be preserving your family’s history for future generations.</b></p>
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<h1 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">Share a Journal</b></h1>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">With My Stories Matter, you and your family can collaborate to preserve memories of shared experiences. Create a journal about family vacations, birthdays, or other milestone events.</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">Use the collaboration feature to fill in the missing gaps of each person’s recollection or to capture different perspectives of the shared experience. You may find it enlightening to view family vacations through your children’s eyes!</b></p>
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<h1 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">Start Making Memories Today </b></h1>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">There is no better platform to reminisce and share memories with the family than <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="family and friends ">My Stories Matter</a>!</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">Invite and collaborate with your parent, grandparent, or long-lost friend by sharing precious moments from the past. </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">There are many ways to preserve family memories during this holiday season. For example:  </b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">Ask family members to share their stories of a loved one on My Stories Matter. Then create a <a href="https://issuu.com/mystoriesmatter/docs/sample-book-issuu" title="Family and friends">Life Stories Book</a> and present it to them as a keepsake.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">Only you know the stories of your children’s early years. Preserve them before they are forgotten. Create a book of their childhood for them to enjoy and pass on to their children.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">Assist a loved one in remembering special moments from their past. Use the power of storytelling to bridge the generations and bring your entire family together. Ask them to tell you the stories behind their photos. Help grandparents (or anybody else) remember the past, reflect on their lives, and share their wisdom and stories.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">Document the history of your own family! You can do this by jotting down memories, capturing audio, uploading photos, or scanning your children’s artwork.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-75d802b1-7fff-55fe-2aab-b92498ad14bc">We wish everyone happy holidays! </b></p>


7 Fun Ways to Connect with Family During the Holidays

<h1>5 Tips for Collecting Family Stories </h1>
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<p>The pandemic has taken an emotional toll on families. Since March of 2020, 27% of parents <a href="https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article/146/4/e2020016824/79686/Well-being-of-Parents-and-Children-During-the" title="Parents reported worsening mental health">reported worsening mental health</a>, and 14% <a href="https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article/146/4/e2020016824/79686/Well-being-of-Parents-and-Children-During-the" title="Parents reported worsening behavior health">reported worsening behavioral health</a> of their children. It's important to reconnect and rekindle our family bonds now more than ever. </p>
<p>Children who are told family stories have <a href="https://news.emory.edu/stories/2020/04/esc_covid_19_family_stories/campus.html" title="Children told family stories have better self-esteem ">better self-esteem</a>, <a href="https://news.emory.edu/stories/2020/04/esc_covid_19_family_stories/campus.html" title="Children told family stories have higher levels of social competence">higher levels of social competence</a>, <a href="https://news.emory.edu/stories/2020/04/esc_covid_19_family_stories/campus.html" title="Children told family stories have more quality friendships ">quality friendships</a>, <a href="https://news.emory.edu/stories/2020/04/esc_covid_19_family_stories/campus.html" title="Children told family stories have less anxiety and stress">less anxiety, stress</a>, and <a href="https://news.emory.edu/stories/2020/04/esc_covid_19_family_stories/campus.html" title="Children told family stories have fewer behavioral problems">behavioral problems</a>. Unfortunately, many family stories get lost through the generations. One should not forget activities like decorating the Christmas tree, camping, watching a favorite movie, or playing charades.</p>
<p>So how do we keep these bonds and traditions alive? Here are some tips for collecting family stories.  </p>
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<h1>Find Inspiration from Story Prompts </h1>
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<p>Grandma and Grandpa may have a lot of wisdom to share but may not know which stories to tell first. Our prompts feature helps you or your grandparents begin telling stories by asking specific questions, <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/intense-emotions-and-strong-feelings/201711/being-triggered-how-emotional-memories-affect-us" title="Questions trigger memories">triggering</a> memories. These memories can be about childhood, time in the military, or their first time abroad. </p>
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<p>Make Your Family Stories Private</p>
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	We created <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Write your family stories on My Stories Matter">My Stories Matter</a> to go against the trend of every social media platform selling your data. <a href="https://www.cbsnews.com/news/millions-facebook-user-records-exposed-amazon-cloud-server/" title="Social media apps under criminal investigation ">Unlike the social media apps under federal criminal investigation for data breaches</a>, we protect your information. Only you can choose who sees your family stories when you add a memory.
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<h1>Collaborate with Your Family </h1>
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	Whether grandma is sitting next to you or just a short drive away, everybody can share stories with our collaboration feature! They can contribute photos, audio clips, or videos to help complete that memory. By inviting your family to collaborate, that particular moment in time becomes whole. 
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<h1>Organize Your Family Stories</h1>
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<p>We remember only a limited amount of things from our lives but research indicates that <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0079742108605162" title="Staying organized helps retain memories">staying organized</a> is critical to retaining memories. <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Write your family stories on My Stories Matter">My Stories Matter</a>, for example, allows you to post your family stories in chronological order in your timeline. </p>
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<h1>Categorize Your Family Stories </h1>
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<p>Categorization is essential because it allows you to group family stories. Otherwise, it takes time to navigate everything. Unlike “organization,” “categorization” identifies or divides into classes, labeling. <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Write your family stories on My Stories Matter">My Stories Matter</a>’s Collections feature categorizes for you by labeling specific family stories into their respective folders. </p>
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<h1>In a Rush Jotting Down a Memory?</h1>
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<p>Hearing yourself speaking out loud <a href="https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/12/171201090940.htm" title="Speaking aloud improves your memory">improves your memory</a>. With the voice recording function in our mobile app, you can record on the go, so you don’t lose your train of thought. Once your voice records, people can hear you tell your family stories. You can also capture the stories of family members who have difficulties typing. </p>
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<p>Questions? We have more information about how you can record your family stories on <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Write your family stories on My Stories Matter">My Stories Matter</a>.</p>
