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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-09adf60d-7fff-cac1-9a49-8a28a62cb6c4">As humans, we are wired to connect through stories. Personal narratives are a powerful way to share your experiences and connect with your readers. In this blog article, we will explore how to write a compelling personal narrative that resonates with your readers and helps you build meaningful connections.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-afb9b160-7fff-df71-38cc-673d36d66995">A personal narrative is a story about a personal experience or event. It is told from the writer's perspective and often includes sensory details that help bring the story to life. Personal narratives can be used to explore various topics, from overcoming challenges to travel experiences to family history. Famous examples include classics like “<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Diary_of_a_Young_Girl" title="Personal narrative" type="Personal narrative">Diary of a Young Girl</a>,” by Anne Frank, “<a href="https://gutenberg.net.au/ebooks12/1203811h.html" title="Personal narrative" type="Personal narrative">The Death of the Moth</a>” by Virginia Woolf, and “<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bossypants" title="Personal narrative" type="Personal narrative">Bossypants</a>” by Tina Fey. Read on to find out how to write your very own personal narrative!</b></p>
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<h1 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-afb9b160-7fff-df71-38cc-673d36d66995">Choosing a Topic for Your Personal Narrative</b></h1>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-afb9b160-7fff-df71-38cc-673d36d66995">The first step in writing a personal narrative is choosing a topic. Think about a personal experience that has profoundly impacted you or that you feel strongly about. It could be a life-changing moment, a significant relationship, or a period of personal growth.</b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-afb9b160-7fff-df71-38cc-673d36d66995">Consider what you want your readers to take away from your story when choosing a topic. What lesson or message do you want to share? How can your personal experience help others who may be going through similar situations? <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Personal narrative" type="Personal narrative">My Stories Matter</a> offers excellent prompts to kickstart your writing and what topic you want to focus on. </b></p>
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<h1 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-afb9b160-7fff-df71-38cc-673d36d66995">Tips for Writing a Successful Personal Narrative</b></h1>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-afb9b160-7fff-df71-38cc-673d36d66995">Once you have a topic, it's time to start writing your personal narrative. Here are some <a href="https://www.sjsu.edu/writingcenter/docs/handouts/Personal%20Narrative%20Essays.pdf" title="Personal narrative" type="Personal narrative">tips</a> to help you write a successful story:</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-afb9b160-7fff-df71-38cc-673d36d66995">Use sensory details: Use descriptive language that appeals to the five senses to help bring your story to life. This will help your readers visualize the experience and feel like they are with you, or even better, they are you</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-afb9b160-7fff-df71-38cc-673d36d66995">Focus on a specific moment: Rather than covering an entire event or period, focus on a specific moment that significantly impacted you. This will help you delve deeper into the emotions and thoughts accompanying that moment.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-afb9b160-7fff-df71-38cc-673d36d66995">Show, don't tell: Instead of simply stating how you feel, show your readers through your actions, thoughts, and dialogue. This will help them better understand your experience and feel more connected to you as a writer.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-afb9b160-7fff-df71-38cc-673d36d66995">Sharing your personal narrative is a vulnerable and incredibly rewarding experience. By sharing your story, you can build connections with readers who may have had similar experiences or can relate to your message.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-afb9b160-7fff-df71-38cc-673d36d66995">When sharing your personal narrative, consider the platform you will use. One option is to use My Stories Matter. My Stories Matter provides a safe and supportive community for writers. You can engage with like-minded peers crafting their narratives and bounce ideas off each other and get feedback. However, unlike other social media apps, you are in charge of who sees your writing–even if the answer is no one–due to our sincere respect for privacy. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-afb9b160-7fff-df71-38cc-673d36d66995">In addition, My Stories Matter offers various prompts and writing exercises that inspire creativity and self-reflection, such as our Writing Helper! These tools help you delve deeper into your memories, emotions, and perspectives, enabling you to weave compelling narratives. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-afb9b160-7fff-df71-38cc-673d36d66995"><a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Life Stories" type="Life Stories">Sign up</a> for free today and let the narration begin!</b></p>


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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">Both <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/4-memoir-ideas-jumpstart-your-life-story" title="Memoir and an Autobiography" type="Memoir and an Autobiography">memoirs</a> and <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-write-autobiography" title="Memoir and an Autobiography" type="Memoir and an Autobiography">autobiographies</a> are forms of non-fiction writing that tell the story of someone's life. However, while these two genres are similar in many ways, some significant differences set them apart.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">In this article, we'll explore the differences between a <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/16-reasons-write-your-memoir" title="Memoir and an Autobiography" type="Memoir and an Autobiography">memoir</a> and an autobiography and help you understand which format might be best for your life story!</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">Difference 1: Definition of Memoir and Autobiography</b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">The first and most obvious difference between a memoir and an autobiography is their definition. A memoir is autobiographical writing that focuses on a specific period or theme in a person's life rather than covering their entire life from birth to the present. On the other hand, an autobiography is a comprehensive account of a person's life from start to finish.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">Difference 2: Scope and Focus</b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">As mentioned, a memoir focuses on a specific period or theme in a person's life. This could be a particular event, relationship, or challenge that significantly impacted the person and helped to shape who they are today. In contrast, an autobiography aims to provide a thorough account of a person's life, covering everything from childhood to the present.</b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">Another critical difference between memoir and autobiography is the perspective from which the story is told. In a memoir, the author is typically the main character and the story is told from the first-person point of view. This allows the author to share their thoughts, feelings, and experiences more personally and authentically.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">In an autobiography, the author may also tell their story from a first-person perspective, but it is common for them to take a more objective, third-person approach. This way, the author steps back and provides a broader view of their life and the events that shaped it.</b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">Memoirs and autobiographies inspire or inform others, share lessons learned, or provide a compelling and engaging story. While both genres tell a person's life story, memoirs are often more focused on entertainment and personal growth.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">Autobiographies may be written for a broader audience to establish the author's place in history, provide insight into a particular period or cultural context, or serve as a record of a person's life and achievements.</b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">A memoir typically focuses on a specific period or theme in a person's life, while an autobiography covers their entire life from birth to the present. As a result, memoirs are often more tightly focused and cover a shorter time frame. At the same time, autobiographies tend to be more sprawling and cover a broader range of events and experiences.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">Difference 6: Writing Style</b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">While both genres are non-fiction, the style of writing varies significantly. In a memoir, the author has more freedom to experiment with style and structure and can use literary techniques such as dialogue, scene-setting, and characterization to bring their story to life.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">Author <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/365-you-have-to-write-the-book-that-wants-to-be" title="Memoir and an Autobiography" type="Memoir and an Autobiography">Madeleine L'Engle</a> once said, "You have to write the book that wants to be written. And if the book is too difficult for grown-ups, then you write it for children."</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">In an autobiography, the writing style tends to be more straightforward and factual, with less emphasis on literary flourishes. Autobiographers often strive for a clear, objective tone that accounts for their life.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">Difference 7: Audience</b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">Memoirs are often written for a general audience and may appeal to anyone interested in the author's story or the themes they explore. Depending on the style and content, they may be marketed as self-help books, memoirs, or even novels.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">In contrast, autobiographies are often written for a more specific audience, such as historians, researchers, or fans of the author's work. Autobiographers may focus more on documenting their life and achievements than crafting an engaging narrative.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">Difference 8: Authenticity</b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">Both memoirs and autobiographies aim to provide an authentic account of a person's life, but how this authenticity is achieved varies. In a memoir, the author may take creative liberties with the events or characters to tell a more compelling story. However, the overall tone and themes should still be grounded in reality.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">In an autobiography, the focus is often on providing an accurate, factual account of the author's life. Autobiographers may use primary sources such as diaries, letters, and photographs to ensure their account is as real as possible.</b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">In a memoir, the author's voice and personality are often front and center, and the tone may range from humorous to severe, depending on the subject matter. The tone may also change throughout the book, reflecting the author's emotional journey.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">In an autobiography, the tone is often more consistent and may be more objective or academic. The author may adopt a more distant or detached tone to provide a broader view of their life and achievements.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">Difference 10: Legacy</b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">Finally, both memoirs and autobiographies have a lasting impact on a <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-write-your-legacy-story" title="Memoir and an Autobiography" type="Memoir and an Autobiography">person's legacy</a>. By sharing their story, authors can inspire and educate others and leave a <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/4-reasons-record-your-life" title="Memoir and an Autobiography" type="Memoir and an Autobiography">record of their life</a> and achievements for future generations.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">While memoirs and autobiographies are forms of non-fiction writing that tell the story of a person's life, they differ in significant ways. Memoirs focus on a specific period or theme and are often more personal and literary in style. At the same time, autobiographies provide a complete account of a person's life and are often more objective and factual. Understanding the differences between these two genres will help aspiring writers choose the format best suited to their own life stories.</b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">Write your Memoir or Autobiography on My Stories Matter </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7">Whether you write a memoir or autobiography or simply want to record your valuable life stories, the most important thing is to start capturing and sharing those memories. Your life is too important to be lost to time - it deserves to be preserved and celebrated for generations to come.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9b25dcf5-7fff-6b2f-839a-fd94fc091fa7"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Memoir and an Autobiography" type="Memoir and an Autobiography">My Stories Matter</a> is incredibly helpful when writing your memoir or autobiography. We provide an easy and accessible way to record your stories and memories, allowing you to create a digital asset for generations. You can chronicle your life to make writing a memoir or autobiography much easier! <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Memoir and an Autobiography" type="Memoir and an Autobiography">Sign up</a> for free today.</b></p>


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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">Losing a loved one can be a challenging and emotional experience. So <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/8-creative-ways-keep-memory-loved-one-alive" title="Celebration of Life Memory Book" type="Celebration of Life Memory Book">preserving their memories</a> and cherishing your moments with them is essential!</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">One way to do this is by creating a Celebration of Life Stories Book, which captures the life and legacy of your deceased loved one. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">Keep reading to discover the benefits of a Celebrating a Life Stories Book and what to include in one!</b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">A Celebration of Life Stories Book offers numerous benefits for honoring a deceased loved one, including helping with the grieving process, as <a href="https://www.researchgate.net/publication/301745124_Scrapbooking_as_an_Intervention_to_Enhance_Coping_in_Individuals_Experiencing_Grief_and_Loss" title="Celebration of Life Memory Book" type="Celebration of Life Memory Book">research</a> suggests. It allows you to express emotions creatively, reminisce on cherished memories, and create a meaningful tribute to your loved one's life.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">Making scrapbooks using personal, symbolic artifacts has become <a href="https://www.researchgate.net/publication/301745124_Scrapbooking_as_an_Intervention_to_Enhance_Coping_in_Individuals_Experiencing_Grief_and_Loss" title="Celebration of Life Memory Book" type="Celebration of Life Memory Book">popular for people dealing with loss</a>. This ritual allows people to collect memories, providing comfort and a sense of closure. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">Scrapbooks are also a great way to <a href="https://www.researchgate.net/publication/301745124_Scrapbooking_as_an_Intervention_to_Enhance_Coping_in_Individuals_Experiencing_Grief_and_Loss" title="Celebration of Life Memory Book" type="Celebration of Life Memory Book">connect with family and peers</a>. <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/sharing-memories-5-unique-ways-you-havent-thought" title="Celebration of Life Memory Book" type="Celebration of Life Memory Book">Sharing</a> your scrapbook creations can spark conversations and deepen relationships with your loved ones.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">Scrapbooks can be an excellent substitute if you struggle with words. You can use images, colors, souvenirs, etc., to showcase their life or communicate how much they meant to you. Plenty of people use visuals to express themselves. Why are we still drawn to the Mona Lisa and Starry Night? After all, visuals <a href="https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/EJ1288746.pdf" title="Celebration of Life Memory Book" type="Celebration of Life Memory Book">stimulate memory</a>. </b></p>
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<h1 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">What to Include in a Celebration of Life Stories Book</b></h1>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">A Celebration of Life Stories Book can contain various items and information about your loved one. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">These include but are not limited to:</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">Photos</b><b>: Include photos that capture your loved one's life. This could be pictures of them at different stages of their life, with family and friends, and doing activities they enjoyed.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">Stories: Share stories about your loved one's life, such as memories you have of them or stories that others have shared with you.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">Letters: Include letters that your loved one wrote or received from others—examples: letters of love, encouragement, or support.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">Quotes: If your loved one had a favorite quote or saying, put it in the Life Stories Book!</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">Artifacts: Include any necessary items for your loved one from their hobbies, collections, or personal belongings.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">Genealogy: If your loved one was interested in genealogy, insert a family tree and any information about their ancestors.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">Obituary: Have a copy of the obituary published in the newspaper or online.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">Tributes: Ask family and friends to contribute to the book by writing tributes or memories of your loved one. These could be separate pages integrated into the book.</b></p>
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<h1 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">Make a Celebration of Life Stories Book on My Stories Matter</b></h1>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">Losing a loved one is a difficult time for everyone, and creating a Celebration of Life Stories Book can be a cathartic way to honor and cherish their memories. However, <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-create-memory-book%C2%A0" title="Celebration of Life Memory Book" type="Celebration of Life Memory Book">making a Celebration of Life Stories Book</a> can be daunting. That's where <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Celebration of Life Memory Book" type="Celebration of Life Memory Book">My Stories Matter</a> comes in!</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">My Stories Matter helps you create a digital or a physical Celebration of Life Stories Book. The digital option is perfect if you need more time or want a more professional-looking book. It allows you to collaborate with family and friends to add photos, audio recordings, and text, making the process more interactive and personalized.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">For those who prefer a tangible memento, My Stories Matter offers a professionally designed and formatted physical book. Printed copies can be ordered so everyone can have a copy of the book as a keepsake.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">With My Stories Matter, you can customize the book to reflect your loved one's personality and style. You can choose a design that honors their passions, hobbies, or favorite color. By doing so, you create a unique and meaningful tribute that celebrates their life. See an example of what your book might <a href="https://issuu.com/mystoriesmatter/docs/sample-book-issuu" title="Celebration of Life Memory Book" type="Celebration of Life Memory Book">look like</a>! </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-dac5102e-7fff-795b-3efb-d19e8a302814">Creating a Celebration of Life Stories Book is a beautiful way to <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-relive-memory" title="Celebration of Life Memory Book" type="Celebration of Life Memory Book">remember</a> and honor the life of someone you love. My Stories Matter provides an easy and stress-free way to create a personalized book that will become a timeless family heirloom. <a href="https://book.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Celebration of Life Memory Book" type="Celebration of Life Memory Book">Get started</a> today!</b></p>


A Celebration of Life Stories Book

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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Did you know that <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNDI0Njg" title="memoirs">memoirs</a> are one of the fastest-growing genres in publishing? You don’t need to be a celebrity or the survivor of a catastrophic event to draw readers to the story of your life. Some of the most popular memoirs in recent years have been written by <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNTY2NzI" title="everyday people">everyday people</a>. </b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Writing a memoir can help you reflect on your experiences, and lessons learned, leading to greater <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNDM3MjU" title="self awareness">self-awareness</a> and <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xMzcxMzY" title="personal growth">personal growth</a>.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Legacy</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">By sharing your stories, you leave a <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNTM4NTY" title="legacy for loved ones">legacy for loved ones</a> that provides a glimpse into your life as well as the <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNDQ5ODc" title="people and experiences that shaped your personality">people and experiences that shaped your personality</a>.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Family Narrative</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Record your family’s story. <a href="https://wellbeingjournal.com/childhood-self-esteem-and-family-togetherness/" title="Research">Research</a> shows that children who have a strong sense of </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">“<a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xMjc2OQ" title="intergenerational self">intergenerational self</a>” and know they <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNDUxMDk" title="belong to something bigger than themself">belong to something bigger than themself</a> are more likely to have higher self-esteem and resilience. </b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Healing</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Writing about past experiences can be a form of therapy and <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNTI0NDk" title="healing">healing</a> for both the <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xMzQxMjY" title="writer and the reader">writer and the reader</a>.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Create Connection</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Memoirs can bring people together and create a <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNzM2MA" title="sense of community">sense of community</a> by <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNTI0MDk" title="sharing common experiences and perspectives">sharing common experiences and perspectives</a>.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Inspire Others</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Sharing your story can <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNDA0NjY" title="inspire">inspire</a> and <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNDMxNDY" title="empower">empower</a> others who may be facing similar experiences.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Document History</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">By documenting your experiences, you are contributing to the <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNTYzNzQ" title="historical record">historical record</a> of your community and the <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNDU1NTA" title="world">world</a>.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Gratitude</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">A memoir provides an opportunity to <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xMTIzNA" title="express gratitude">express gratitude</a> to the people who have helped you in your life journey. <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xMzI2Mw" title="Publicly thank individuals">Publicly thank individuals</a> so that their legacy can live on.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Pay-it-forward and share your <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy85NjAx" title="hard-earned life lessons">hard-earned life lessons</a> to <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNDAzMg" title="help younger generations">help younger generations</a> succeed in life.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Mental Exercise</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Writing down <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy85MjA4" title="stories">stories</a> <a href="https://hbr.org/2014/10/why-your-brain-loves-good-storytelling" title="solidifies memory pathways">solidifies memory pathways</a> in the brain and <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xMzU2MDg" title="preserves those memories">preserves those memories</a> for the future.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Unique Voice</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Your story is <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNzgzNQ" title="unique">unique</a> and valuable. Writing it gives you the opportunity to <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xMzQxOTQ" title="share your perspective and voice">share your perspective and voice</a> with the world.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Empowerment</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Writing a memoir can be an empowering experience that helps the author <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xMjUwMjE" title="reclaim their story">reclaim their story</a> and <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNTExMTk" title="gain control over their narrative">gain control over their narrative</a>.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Celebrate Achievements</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">A memoir is a way to <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNTU3MjA" title="celebrate">celebrate</a> and acknowledge your achievements, <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNTI0NDk" title="struggles">struggles</a>, and milestones.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Express Creativity</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Memoir writing is a form of <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xMzY1MTQ" title="creative expression">creative expression</a> that enables you to craft your story and <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNDY3MzI" title="showcase your writing skills">showcase your writing skills</a>.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Write about the <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNDU5MTc" title="foibles">foibles</a> of life and share the <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNTYzNTY" title="joy of laughter">joy of laughter</a>.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">20 Feet from Stardom</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Share your <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNTI5MTI" title="unique stories">unique stories</a> about <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/memory/bXlfc3Rvcmllcy8xNDQ3ODQ" title="your brush with famous people">your brush with famous people</a>.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95"><a href="https://writinghelper.mystoriesmatter.com" title="Writing Helper">Writing Helper</a></b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Elevate your writing in minutes</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Have you always wanted to write your memoir? Do you struggle to put your ideas into words? Have a story to tell, but need help telling it? We can help you create professionally-written stories of your life.</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Save time and improve the quality of your writing </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">We turn your ideas and words into beautifully crafted stories delivered straight into your email inbox. And, we’ll save them digitally for you on My Stories Matter. Enjoy the quality of a professional writing service with the convenience of email! </b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">What would you like to do?</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">I need help starting my story</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Simply start with an idea. We’ll email you a topic or you can choose your own such as “Memories of my Mother” or “Life lessons I’d like to pass onto my children.”</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Then, just like a conversation, we will email you some questions. Spend just a few minutes on your responses and we will turn them into a professionally-written story. Don’t worry about spelling or grammar - we handle that too.</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">I need help improving my story</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Every published author has an editor. If you just want to improve an existing story, our editing service can help. We can improve the readability of your writing by correcting spelling and grammar mistakes, and adding paragraph breaks. We can also provide alternative versions for your consideration. </b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">No matter what stage your story is at, we can take it to the next level and make it publication-worthy.</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">It’s easy, fast, and affordable. </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">See it in action</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Watch our short video to see how we can help you become the writer you’ve always wanted to be. </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">3 Easy Steps:</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Choose a topic, or send us your existing story</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Answer a few questions, or ask us to help improve your story</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Enjoy your story!</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">For a limited time, try it now, for free!</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Create your own Memoir or Life Stories Book </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Click <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/preserve-your-memories-with-memory-book" title="here">here</a> to learn more about creating your own book</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Acknowledgements</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Thank you to the following members of My Stories Matter whose posts are referenced.</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Hans VanDeVen</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Betty DelCastillo</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Megan Rourke</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Lilian Lopez</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Lynn Lozano</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Shaire Campos </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Christopher Faylor</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Ruth Brandon</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Sera Mercury</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Peyton Kellner</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Robin Korejko</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Cierra Turner-graham</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Bailey Edwinson</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Keanna Bitangcol</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Arnie Papp</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Alex Reid</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Yolanda Collier</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Sharon Nibbs</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Marisa Hoisington</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Electra Panting</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Inez Morgan</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Douglas Augustine</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Erica Worley</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Belinda Wharehinga</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Stephanie Elsner</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Peg Brown</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Norma Jarvie</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Sera Mercury</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Lynette Villegas</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Lucy Perez</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Ken Windsor</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Claire Goodwin </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Andrea Thorfinson</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-cb8f0dcb-7fff-4f21-f0db-41a755091d95">Ty Hunter</b></p>


March 2nd is World Book Day, so now’s a perfect time to think about writing your memoir.

16 Reasons to Write Your Memoir

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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-05cdc721-7fff-3623-1b5e-46f193a6ec52">Mother's Day is a special occasion to honor the woman who gave us life and love. One meaningful way to celebrate this day is to create a <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-create-memory-book%C2%A0" title="memory book" type="memory book">Mother's Day Life Stories Book</a> filled with your mom's stories and memories. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-05cdc721-7fff-3623-1b5e-46f193a6ec52">Imagine sitting with your mom, drinking tea, and reminiscing about her life. You'll not only learn more about your mom, but you'll also have a chance to relive some of your favorite memories! It's also an opportunity to spend quality time together. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-05cdc721-7fff-3623-1b5e-46f193a6ec52">Reading these stories in a Life Stories Book has so many scientific benefits! For example, reading can <a href="https://foundationforlearningandliteracy.info/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/benefits-of-reading-for-pleasure-2020-1.pdf" title="memory book" type="memory book">remind</a> people of activities or occupations they once enjoyed or knowledge and skills they possess, helping to <a href="https://foundationforlearningandliteracy.info/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/benefits-of-reading-for-pleasure-2020-1.pdf" title="memory book" type="memory book ">restore</a> their sense of purpose and connection to the world. </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-05cdc721-7fff-3623-1b5e-46f193a6ec52"> So, why not give the gift of memories this Mother's Day? Creating a Life Stories Book is easy and fun on <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="memory book" type="memory book">My Stories Matter</a>!</b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-05cdc721-7fff-3623-1b5e-46f193a6ec52">The process is simple: all you need to do is set up a free <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="memory book" type="memory book">account</a> on My Stories Matter and invite your mom to join. We have hundreds of prompts to help her write her life stories, such as “Describe your parents? “What activities did you enjoy as a child?” and “What were you like as a teenager?”</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-05cdc721-7fff-3623-1b5e-46f193a6ec52">Or, she can use our “Writing Helper” to turn her ideas and words into beautifully crafted stories delivered straight into her email inbox. We’ll email her some topics, or she can choose her own. Then, just like a conversation, we will email her some questions. She only needs to spend a few minutes on her responses, and we will turn them into professionally-written stories of her life. We’ll also save them on My Stories Matter so she can add photos! </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-05cdc721-7fff-3623-1b5e-46f193a6ec52">According to a survey of Americans' keeping habits, photos are the <a href="https://www.lifestorage.com/blog/storage/american-sentimentality-research-2018/" title="memory book" type="memory book">most sentimental object we save</a>! Utilize our powerful photo enhancement service to breathe life into her old, faded photos. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-05cdc721-7fff-3623-1b5e-46f193a6ec52">Once your mother has recorded the stories behind the photos, you can organize them into a <a href="https://book.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="memory book" type="memory book">Mother's Day Book</a>. Or, our designer can take it to the next level and create a personalized-looking gift. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-05cdc721-7fff-3623-1b5e-46f193a6ec52">Books are timeless. Printing your Mother's Day Book will be a tangible gift that she and others will value for years.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-05cdc721-7fff-3623-1b5e-46f193a6ec52">But the fun doesn’t stop there; once the Mother's Day Book is created, you can <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/sharing-memories-5-unique-ways-you-havent-thought" title="memory book" type="memory book">share</a> it with family and friends! </b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-05cdc721-7fff-3623-1b5e-46f193a6ec52">One fun way to use My Stories Matter is to create a "guess who" game with your mom's stories. You can record your mom sharing stories about different people, such as her childhood friends, old co-workers, or even celebrities she's met. Once you record the stories, you can organize them into the Mother's Day Book and invite your family and friends to guess who the stories are about. </b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-05cdc721-7fff-3623-1b5e-46f193a6ec52">You can access My Stories Matter anywhere! This means that even if you can't be with your mother in person on Mother's Day, you can still create a unique book for her. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-05cdc721-7fff-3623-1b5e-46f193a6ec52">Another way to make the process more fun is to record your mother's stories in different places or settings. You can take My Stories Matter with you on a trip or to other sites with special meaning, such as the house she grew up in or a family vacation place. This will add an extra layer of significance to the stories in the book.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-05cdc721-7fff-3623-1b5e-46f193a6ec52">Create a Mother’s Day Life Stories Book  </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-05cdc721-7fff-3623-1b5e-46f193a6ec52">Using My Stories Matter to create a Mother's Day book is an excellent way to honor your mother and preserve her <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-write-your-legacy-story" title="memory book" type="memory book">legacy</a>. Create a permanent record of your mother's stories and memories for future generations to cherish and enjoy.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-05cdc721-7fff-3623-1b5e-46f193a6ec52">Mother’s Day is just around the corner, so <a href="https://book.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="memory book" type="memory book">get started</a> today!</b></p>


Create a Mother’s Day Life Stories Book with My Stories Matter

<p dir="ltr"> <b id="docs-internal-guid-44f1e3b6-7fff-1e69-3de0-ced09123b28c">Memoirs are a popular form of literature, offering readers a chance to glimpse into the lives of others, understand different perspectives, and gain insights that can transform their lives.</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>For example, memoirs like McCourt’s “Angela’s Ashes,” Hemingway’s “A Moveable Feast,” and Gilbert's “Eat, Pray, Love” remain inspiring classics. They are becoming more popular than ever, growing <a href="https://wordsrated.com/autobiography-sales-statistics/" title="memoir ideas">26% in sales revenue over the last five years - more than non-fiction books</a>! </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-44f1e3b6-7fff-1e69-3de0-ced09123b28c">A memoirist or a memorialist is a person who writes a memoir. However, it’s essential to distinguish memoirs from autobiographies. <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-write-autobiography" title="memoir ideas">Autobiographies</a> narrate the story "of a life," but a memoir often relates the story of a specific career, event, or time in the author's life, such as touchstone moments.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-44f1e3b6-7fff-1e69-3de0-ced09123b28c">If you're thinking of writing a memoir, but are unsure where to start, don’t fret! <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="memoir ideas">My Stories Matter</a> gives you four memoir ideas to get you started. </b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-44f1e3b6-7fff-1e69-3de0-ced09123b28c">This could be tragedy or triumph, achieving a personal goal, or overcoming an obstacle. If you experienced a significant illness or injury, you could write about how that event impacted your life and how you coped with the changes. Or, if you faced a challenge, such as overcoming addiction or going through a divorce, you could write about what you learned from the experience.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-44f1e3b6-7fff-1e69-3de0-ced09123b28c">Despite what you might think, writing about adverse events has a <a href="https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fnhum.2019.00389/full" title="memoir ideas">positive effect</a>! Telling the story of a past negative incident or continuing anxiety "frees up" cognitive resources. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-44f1e3b6-7fff-1e69-3de0-ced09123b28c">The same goes for “positive expressive writing.” According to one <a href="https://psyarxiv.com/uctj4/" title="memoir ideas">study</a>, a three-day course of "positive expressive writing," which involved writing about positive events, reduced anxiety immediately after writing and improved work-related well-being and job satisfaction four weeks later! <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/7-must-have-tips-journaling%C2%A0" title="memoir ideas">Journaling</a>, memoirs, and poetry are all examples of expressive writing.</b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-44f1e3b6-7fff-1e69-3de0-ced09123b28c">Exploring your roots means delving into your <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/5-tips-collecting-family-stories" title="memoir ideas">family history</a>, <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/importance-creating-family-memories%C2%A0" title="memoir ideas">cultural background</a>, and childhood experiences. This can be a great way to uncover stories and experiences that have shaped your life and helped you become the person you are today.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-44f1e3b6-7fff-1e69-3de0-ced09123b28c">Did your <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/preserve-your-grandparents%E2%80%99-memories-my-stories-matter%C2%A0" title="memoir ideas">grandparents</a> have a difficult journey coming to America? Was there a pivotal moment in your childhood that shaped your worldview? What was your relationship with your <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/importance-recording-your-parents-life-stories-how-my-stories-matter-can-help" title="memoir ideas">parents</a> and siblings like? </b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-44f1e3b6-7fff-1e69-3de0-ced09123b28c">Writing about a relationship, whether it's a romantic relationship, a friendship, or a relationship with a family member, can be a powerful way to explore the dynamics of human connections.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-44f1e3b6-7fff-1e69-3de0-ced09123b28c">Was there a romantic relationship that taught you about love and trust? Or a friendship that ended in betrayal? You could also write about a complicated relationship with a family member and how that impacted your <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/5-best-tips-capturing-life-stories" title="memoir ideas">life</a> or explore the bonds with your childhood friends.</b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-44f1e3b6-7fff-1e69-3de0-ced09123b28c">Did you love painting or <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/why-you-prefer-nostalgic-songs-your-teenage-years" title="memoir ideas">playing an instrument</a> growing up? Is there a passion that inspires you? Write about how that passion has influenced your life. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-44f1e3b6-7fff-1e69-3de0-ced09123b28c">Contrary to popular opinion, there isn’t one single passion for everybody. Some people enjoy many hobbies, and no hobby is too small or insignificant if it gives you comfort. The best thing you can do is listen to what motivates you, then write about it. </b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-44f1e3b6-7fff-1e69-3de0-ced09123b28c">My Stories Matter can help you bring these <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-bring-memory-life" title="memoir ideas">ideas to life</a> and turn them into a coherent narrative so your memoir can leave a <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-write-your-legacy-story" title="memoir ideas">lasting legacy</a> for future generations. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-44f1e3b6-7fff-1e69-3de0-ced09123b28c">My Stories Matter's editing and organizing features make revising and perfecting your memoir easy! For example, take advantage of our assisted writing feature, <a href="http://writinghelper.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="memoir ideas">WritingHelper</a>, where a writer can assist you by asking questions and composing your responses into a narrative while correcting grammar and spelling. This can help you expand your ideas and develop a deeper understanding of the story you want to tell. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-44f1e3b6-7fff-1e69-3de0-ced09123b28c">You can also add multimedia content, such as photos and videos, allowing you to explore different formats for your memoir.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-44f1e3b6-7fff-1e69-3de0-ced09123b28c">Don’t forget to invite friends and family to share their memories and perspectives! This can add a new layer of depth to your ideas for a memoir and make it a truly collaborative effort. </b></p>
<p><b><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="memoir ideas">Sign up for free</a> at My Stories Matter today, and happy writing!</b></p>


4 Memoir Ideas to Jumpstart Your Life Story

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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">Stories have been a fundamental part of human society for millennia. They have been used for entertainment, education, and cultural preservation. Beyond historical significance, they serve a profound personal and individual purpose.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">They even benefit businesses! For example, statistics show that storytelling can boost conversation rates by 30%. For more scientific facts about storytelling, visit <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/4-surprising-facts-about-storytelling" title="my stories matter">4 Surprising Facts about Storytelling</a>. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">But do our stories really matter? Read on to find out! </b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">Our Stories Are a Reflection of Who We Are </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">They reflect our experiences, our values, and our beliefs. They offer a glimpse into our innermost thoughts and feelings, allowing us better to understand ourselves and our place in the world.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">Our Stories Help Us to Connect with Others </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">We invite others into our lives by sharing our stories and asking them to share their experiences. Therefore, we can build relationships, foster empathy, and create a community.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">Our Stories Have the Power to Inspire and Motivate </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">By sharing our struggles and triumphs, we can help others see that they are not alone and can overcome adversity. This can provide a source of hope and encouragement for those facing similar challenges.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">Our Stories Can Educate and Inform</b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">By sharing our knowledge and experiences, we can help others to learn and grow. This can be especially important when addressing complex or challenging issues, such as discrimination, inequality, or social injustice.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">Our Stories Can be a Source of Entertainment and Enjoyment</b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">Whether reading a novel, watching a movie, or listening to a podcast, stories can transport us to different worlds and immerse us in new experiences. Who doesn’t love to welcome an escape from everyday life for a source of enjoyment and entertainment?</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">Your Stories Matter on My Stories Matter </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">Our stories matter because they are a reflection of who we are; they help us to connect with others, they have the power to inspire and motivate, and they can educate and inform. Whether we are sharing our own stories or consuming the stories of others, they have the power to enrich our lives and make the world a better place.</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="my stories matter">My Stories Matter</a> is the best platform to write your stories, allowing you to reconnect with former pals and those who were always there for you. Remember that magical trip to the coast, Grand Canyon, or Christmas destination? My Stories Matter keeps those joyful memories in a safe place where you can easily access them.</b><br />
	<b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="my stories matter">Sign up</a> for free today and start storytelling! </b></p>


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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">You have unique experiences and stories worth sharing and preserving as a military member. These stories can provide valuable insights and lessons for future generations and can also serve as a way to connect with others who have shared similar experiences. As we get older, our memories can fade, making it more difficult to recall specific details and experiences from our past.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">Recording your military stories allows you to reflect on your service and experiences. This can be a therapeutic and healing process, as it will enable you to process and make sense of your experiences in a structured and meaningful way. It can also help you better understand your military time's impact on your life and how it has shaped you, giving you a sense of accomplishment and pride.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">But where to begin?</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="military stories ">My Stories Matter</a> gives you some essential tips to get started! </b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">Memory Cues </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">My Stories Matter has several features that make recording and sharing your stories easy. One of the key features is the ability to use memory cues to help you remember your experiences. This can include playable songs or photos that can help trigger memories and make it easier to recall your experiences in detail. This can be especially helpful for those who may have difficulty remembering certain aspects of their military time or want to ensure that their stories are as detailed and accurate as possible.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">Collaboration </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">Start reminiscing! My Stories Matter makes it easy to connect with others and share your stories in a collaborative environment. This provides a sense of community and support and can enrich and enhance your own stories by hearing the perspectives of others who have shared similar experiences.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">Helpful Tips </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">My Stories Matter has several resources and tips to help you record your stories in the most effective way possible. These can include advice on organizing your thoughts, structuring your stories, and overcoming any challenges or obstacles, you may encounter. Whether you're a seasoned military veteran or a recruit just starting, My Stories Matter can provide the tools and support you need to record your military stories in an impactful way.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">Record your Military Stories </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">By sharing your stories with others who have shared similar experiences, you can form relationships and bonds that offer support and camaraderie. This can be especially helpful for those who may feel isolated or disconnected from others and can give a sense of belonging and community.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">With My Stories Matter, recording and sharing your stories has never been easier. So why not take the first step and start recording your military stories today?</b></p>


The Importance of Recording Your Military Stories and How My Stories Matter Can Help

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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Recording your parent's life stories is a meaningful way to preserve their memories and experiences for the long term. You can revisit those memories anytime and share your parent's experiences with others. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">But with so many options for recording your parent's life stories, it can be overwhelming to know where to start!</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog" title="my stories matter">My Stories Matter</a> makes it easy and fun for parents to document and share their life stories online. With its user-friendly interface and secure platform, My Stories Matter provides a safe and private environment for recording your parent's life stories. This can be a great way to relive special moments with your parents, creating a sense of comfort and nostalgia.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Here are several great reasons to record your parent’s life stories!</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Bond with Your Parents </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Anyone you choose may read your stories; unlike most social media apps, My Stories Matter is tailored to your privacy. With My Stories Matter, you can share their stories with specific friends and family members or keep them private for enjoyment. This can be a great way to connect with others with similar experiences and provide a sense of community. </b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Gain Insight </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Recording your parent's life stories allows you to learn more about your parent's experiences and life journeys. By documenting their stories, you can gain insight into their lives and the world they grew up in. This can provide valuable context for your own life, and it can also help you to understand your parent's perspective better.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Preserve Memories </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Recording your parent's life stories can be a valuable tool for preserving their memories for future generations. By recording their memories on My Stories Matter, you can ensure that they are kept long-term and that future generations can enjoy them</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Document Your Parent’s Life on My Stories Matter </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">How do you encourage your parents to document their life stories? One way is to talk to them and explain the benefits. You can also offer to help them with the process by providing a journal or recording device or sitting down with them and asking questions about their experiences. </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">My Stories Matter lets you preserve all memories, not just your parents or <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/preserve-your-grandparents%E2%80%99-memories-my-stories-matter%C2%A0" title="parents life stories">grandparents</a>! While everything is fresh, start recording memories today and create a lasting family legacy. </b></p>


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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">As our grandparent's age, it's essential to ensure their memories are preserved for future generations. Our grandparents have a wealth of knowledge and experiences, and their memories can give us a unique glimpse into the past. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">But as time passes, these memories can fade and be lost forever. Fortunately, here are a few tips on preserving your grandparents’ memories. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">Let’s go! </b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">Ask Questions</b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">One of the best ways to preserve a grandparent's memories is to ask about their childhood, experiences during major historical events, or daily life. Asking questions can help jog our grandparent's memory and allow them to share their experiences with us.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">Record Their Stories </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">Another way to preserve a grandparent's memories is to record them. This can be a written journal, voice recording, or video. Recording their stories allows us to capture their memories and enjoy them.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">Share Their Stories</b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">In addition to recording their stories, it's also important to share them with others. Sharing a grandparent's memories with friends and family can help keep those memories alive and allow others to learn from and appreciate them. It can also be a great way to connect with others with similar experiences and foster a sense of community.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">Preserve your Grandparents’ Memories on My Stories Matter </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="grandparents' memories ">My Stories Matter</a> is an excellent resource for protecting a grandparent's memories. With its easy-to-use tools and secure platform, My Stories Matter makes it simple to record and share a grandparent's memories and stories.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">By asking questions, recording their stories, and sharing them with others, we can ensure our grandparents' memories are preserved for years to come. And with the help of a platform like My Stories Matter, preserving these memories can be fun and easy!</b></p>


Preserve your Grandparents’ Memories on My Stories Matter 


<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab">Do you have many special memories you don’t want to forget, but nowhere to keep them? </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab">Whether it's a collection of photos and mementos from a trip or a catalog of your childhood memories, a Life Stories Book is a fun and creative way to keep those memories alive. There are <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/4-reasons-record-your-life" title="memory book ">so many mental and physical health benefits</a> to logging your life. </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab">We’ve compiled seven essential steps that you can follow to create your very own Life Stories Book. </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab">Let’s dive in!</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-771e110c-7fff-2164-4507-391d5c83e01c"><img alt="family memories" src="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/lt0wbsT8deHUHxrvO0VcIioljZw9zuASicwO7BsFsGIWUFPb0_y25AtBtgbOrVaxRF4RI38CVB51XGjUCzBzE-7Bt97Q8nyLu2qrTaOOUUTKmE4wIYK9lC70Bu1F57-MhBph1YF77D97U7ze7xWenKHHYy1WBilKid9huunIYBVYVGD-fqS3vRKccBPzJQ" /></b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab">1. Gather Your Materials </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab">First, you'll need to gather all the materials you'll need to create your Life Stories Book. This will include a scrapbook or photo album, scissors, glue or adhesive, and any other decorative items you'd like to use (such as stickers, ribbons, or glitter). You'll also need photos and other mementos that you want to include.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab">2. Choose a Theme </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab">Before you start putting your Life Stories Book together, choosing a theme for your book can be helpful. This could be lessons you learned in life, annual family vacations, or the type of relationships or hobbies you’ve had. Choosing a theme will help you organize your book and make it more cohesive.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab">3. Organize Your Photos and Mementos</b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab">Once you have all your materials, it's time to organize them. Try to sort your pictures and mementos chronologically so your book tells the story of your journey or event in order. Or, you could assemble it by theme, focusing on a different memory or topic. For example, a book about family vacations can be organized by destination. If you’re looking for a place to do both, join <a href="http://mystoriesmatter.com" title="Memory book ">My Stories Matter</a> for free. On My Stories Matter, we automatically collect your memories into a timeline and help you group your memories.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab">4. Start Putting Your Life Stories Book Together! </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab">Begin laying out your photos and mementos on a flat surface, and arrange them to appear in your book. If you're using a scrapbook, you can use adhesive to attach your photos and mementos to the pages. You can slip your images into photo sleeves or slots provided using a photo album. </b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab">5. Add Captions and Other Details </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab">As you arrange your photos and mementos in your Life Stories Book, add captions and other details to help tell the story of your memories. Include the date and location of each image and any interesting stories or information on the memory you want to share. For example, add what you felt or what happened right before and after the photo was taken. This will help bring your memories to life and make your memory book more interesting. If you have black and white photos and want them colorized for free, upload them to memory on <a href="http://mystoriesmatter.com" title="Memory book ">My Stories Matter</a>.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-5f2a801c-7fff-0f6a-d5bd-3c49075161f1"><img alt="Boy in photograph " src="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/qPD3zAr1RQSXjNkgFy4dnPmO94wLrBSCc-3iz_GyeYPaS0qvcCtnkujgi-hVZ4qXG8Ds9OaN46IEUm6SPHWzH464pUG31j5GsSb8Z43q5d38AF2WsCIgB6dMxH_WsC5aO222XjuSGlA3l0tLji4NKxC33baRQ0fo3hhYr4lrC2RBZ6iR7Qc0n4twCB9tJw" /></b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab">6. Review and Make any Necessary Changes </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab">Now, take some time to review and make any necessary changes. This could include rearranging your photos and mementos, adding or removing any elements, or making other changes that will help improve your book. Once satisfied, you can consider it complete and ready to share with others.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab">Create a Life Stories Book on My Stories Matter </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab">By following these steps, you can create a beautiful and personal Life Stories Book that you'll be proud to share with others. </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab">But the best place to do this is in <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Memory book ">My Stories Matter</a>, where you can record your memories and life stories for free and get a beautiful Life Stories Book designed. Once you publish memories on My Stories Matter, you can submit your memories to be made into a book. Our team designs the book and coordinates details with you via email. You’ll get to choose between cover options, hardcover vs. softcover, paper quality, etc., to fit any budget range. You only pay once you approve it, and we’ll send it to one of our partner print publishers. You don’t have to do anything but record your memories, submit them, and we take care of the rest! <a href="https://issuu.com/mystoriesmatter/docs/sample-book-issuu" title="Memory book ">See</a> a sample of what yours could look like!</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-1451199a-7fff-195d-e7d9-1babf28636ab"><a href="https://book.mystoriesmatter.com" title="Memory book ">Start creating</a> your Life Stories Book today! </b></p>


How to Create a Life Stories Book 

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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-91b3bdc9-7fff-cdea-d713-d59b69223106">Our views change as we gain experience, and old memories vanish as new ones replace them. Wouldn't it be nice if you could write down your memories immediately so you can hand them down to future generations? </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-91b3bdc9-7fff-cdea-d713-d59b69223106">In February 2010, scientist <a href="https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20191202-can-lifelogging-really-help-you-live-more-intensely" title="record your life">Morris Villarroel</a> did just that. He began his ambitious 10-year experiment of keeping a record of his life.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-91b3bdc9-7fff-cdea-d713-d59b69223106">"Wouldn't it be helpful to have a more thorough and tangible record of my life?" He thought. That way, he would benefit from remembering more of his history and how to make the most of his remaining time and live more purposefully.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-91b3bdc9-7fff-cdea-d713-d59b69223106">So he began taking notes about his whereabouts and activities throughout the day. Thanks to the reflections he recorded about his professional experiences, such as teaching classes and lecturing at conferences, he found he could gain more from those experiences. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-91b3bdc9-7fff-cdea-d713-d59b69223106">Significant evidence shows that keeping a diary may <a href="https://hbswk.hbs.edu/item/learning-by-thinking-how-reflection-improves-performance" title="record your life">improve happiness and life satisfaction. </a> For instance, researchers examined a group of participants and discovered that <a href="https://hbswk.hbs.edu/item/learning-by-thinking-how-reflection-improves-performance" title="Record your life">keeping a daily notebook for only 10 minutes increased their performance by more than 20%</a>!</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-91b3bdc9-7fff-cdea-d713-d59b69223106">Here are four reasons to record your life, whether in an <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-write-autobiography" title="record your life">autobiography</a>, journaling, or simply <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-relive-memory" title="record your life">saving your memories</a>.</b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-c0302f47-7fff-ffc6-67fa-5fe81222f16e">Leave a Legacy</b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-c0302f47-7fff-ffc6-67fa-5fe81222f16e">In today’s fast-paced world, there never seems to be enough time to sit down with family and share stories about your upbringing, childhood years, or the life lessons you’ve accumulated. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-c0302f47-7fff-ffc6-67fa-5fe81222f16e">But by<a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-write-your-legacy-story" title="record your life"> recording your life story</a>, you'll help future generations better understand their origins. You can make it possible for them to know who you were, your life, and the moments that formed you. And you can impart your wisdom to make their lives easier.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-c0302f47-7fff-ffc6-67fa-5fe81222f16e">A future great-grandchild might identify with your story or find inspiration that could change their life!</b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-22ef4a54-7fff-58b1-c701-9cca02923ada">Exercise Your Mind</b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-22ef4a54-7fff-58b1-c701-9cca02923ada">Losing one’s memory is a common concern of people as they age. Exercising one’s mind is just as crucial as exercising one’s body. “Use it or lose it,” as the saying goes. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-22ef4a54-7fff-58b1-c701-9cca02923ada">Did you know that memoirs written by ordinary people, not celebrities, are the fast-growing genre of publishing today? Those authors are people, just like you. You have more to write about than you realize.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-22ef4a54-7fff-58b1-c701-9cca02923ada">You might think, “I’m not a writer,” or “I don’t know what to write about.” However, you don’t need to be a “gifted” writer to record your life. Your children and grandchildren will only care about “what” you wrote, not “how.”</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-22ef4a54-7fff-58b1-c701-9cca02923ada">There are many ways to find inspiration! <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="record your life">My Stories Matter</a> has over a thousand prompts and cultural cues to trigger your memory and inspire writing. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-22ef4a54-7fff-58b1-c701-9cca02923ada">You can also upload your photos and bring them to life by telling the stories behind them!  <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/5-best-tips-capturing-life-stories" title="record your life">Tap into the ways</a> to record your life that suit you. </b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ac687ae6-7fff-869c-aa24-6b70551be1e4">Raise Self-Awareness </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-ac687ae6-7fff-869c-aa24-6b70551be1e4">Self-awareness focuses on how you feel, act, and think. It all comes down to being aware of your psychological triggers and recurring behaviors.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-ac687ae6-7fff-869c-aa24-6b70551be1e4">Increasing self-awareness may promote empathy for others, acceptance, and new perspectives on life. A popular method to increase self-awareness is journaling or self-reflective writing. Making a timeline and looking back on your past experiences can help you to obtain fresh insight or healing.</b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-056883ee-7fff-974f-b081-0738fdefe04b">Preserve your Family History </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-056883ee-7fff-974f-b081-0738fdefe04b">Have you ever wondered where your talents, disposition, likes, and dislikes originate? You might uncover that information when you <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/sharing-memories-5-unique-ways-you-havent-thought" title="record your life">share your life stories with family members</a>. When you recollect the details and images of your loved ones, you may learn a lot about yourself. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-056883ee-7fff-974f-b081-0738fdefe04b">What would life be like without those detours? These distinctions make a great story. That embarrassing childhood moment is now precious. <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/5-tips-collecting-family-stories" title="record your life">Preserve your family history and pass on</a> the highs, lows, and in-between. </b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-92818c7f-7fff-1ca9-383e-be9f8eaff8a8">My Stories Matter has thousands of prompts and cultural cues to help you record your life. You can: </b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-92818c7f-7fff-1ca9-383e-be9f8eaff8a8">You can easily record the memories of your life and your loved ones. Your children, and their children, will thank you.</b></p>


4 Reasons to Record Your Life

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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">When you get together with friends or family, do their stories make you laugh, smile, or cry? </b></p>

<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">Stories bind us together and make life enjoyable. Albert Einstein <a href="https://www.kumon.co.uk/blog/if-you-want-your-children-to-be-intelligent-read-them-fairy-tales-if-you-want-them-to-be-more-intelligent-read-them-more-fairy-tales-albert-einstein/#:~:text=If%20you%20want%20them%20to,fairy%20tales.%22%20%2D%20Albert%20Einstein" title="storytelling">said</a>, “If you want your children to be intelligent, read them fairy tales.”</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">What do political campaigns, podcasts, and advertising all have in common? All of them leverage the power of storytelling. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">Here are four interesting facts about storytelling: humanity’s most incredible and powerful tool. </b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">1. Stories cause your brain to release positive neurochemicals</b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">Storytelling is an excellent way to forge relationships. A group of UK researchers discovered that listening to stories caused <a href="https://hbr.org/2014/10/why-your-brain-loves-good-storytelling" title="storytelling ">people to produce oxytocin</a>, a neurochemical linked to feelings of love and empathy. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">The quickest way to connect with a stranger is to share a personal story. The more oxytocin is released, the more we internalize that story. When we listen to someone else's experience, we also live it. Why else do we treat our favorite fictional characters like real people?</b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">2. All of us are storytellers</b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">Storytelling is in humanity’s DNA and found in every culture. The delivery mechanisms have changed over the millennia, from the Epic of Gilgamesh etched onto clay tablets to the oral traditions of the ancient Greeks, the printed word, and digital technology. However, our desire to tell our stories and to connect with others has remained constant.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">What did you and your friend talk about today? Storytelling accounts for<a href="https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-secrets-of-storytelling/" title="storytelling "> 65% of our daily conversations</a>. Most of your discussions involve a fun gym experience, interaction with coworkers, and vacations. Our minds tell stories even at night when dreaming. </b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">3. The majority of Hollywood films have the same basic plot </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">The "hero's journey" is a narrative structure in most popular movies. Scientists believe this <a href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_stories_change_brain" title="storytelling ">story form is profoundly ingrained in our collective consciousness and may have been a tool for our forebears to foster morality and trust</a>. </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hero%27s_journey" title="storytelling ">The hero's journey</a> is a popular narrative archetype or story template. The protagonist embarks on an adventure, learns a lesson, triumphs with that knowledge, and ultimately transforms before returning home.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">This can directly be applied to real life, as well. You are the hero in your journey through life. What stories can you share about the challenges you have overcome and how you have grown, such as the lessons you have learned, where your journey has taken you, etc.?  </b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">4. Storytelling is timeless </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">Storytelling predates human language. The earliest humans shared information and made sense of their world via storytelling. You may find instances of this old-fashioned method of communication in the Lascaux caves. The early Homo sapiens who lived there used murals to tell stories.</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>The earliest story </b><b id="docs-internal-guid-64803229-7fff-1d93-8253-d4e19427c08d"><a href="https://www.getty.edu/news/where-did-writing-come-from/" title="storytelling ">ever recorded</a> </b><b>was penned in 3,400 BCE! The "</b><b id="docs-internal-guid-10eee2a8-7fff-72e5-8dba-3905331b08eb"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Epic_of_Gilgamesh" title="storytelling ">Epic of Gilgamesh</a>,"</b><b> an adventure-filled narrative about a monarch named Gilgamesh, described as a one-third man and two-thirds deity, is the oldest known work of literature. As told throughout twelve clay tablets, he embarks on a conventional hero's journey, killing monsters, mingling with the gods, and looking for the secret of immortality. </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">Gilgamesh mentions a great flood that is considered to be the antecedent of the story of Noah’s Ark. Similar stories exist in Indian and Aztec cultures.</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">Even variations of the Cinderella story have been <a href="https://www.ala.org/aboutala/offices/resources/multicultural" title="storytelling ">retold hundreds of times throughout history</a>!</b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">Storytelling on My Stories Matter</b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">Experience these four facts of storytelling by writing your own! Share the stories of your hero's journey through life on My Stories Matter, or be inspired by the stories from your family, friends, and other members!</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">Relive your time spent traveling abroad or visiting your grandparents. Share your reflections about a foreign culture or a life lesson you learned. My Stories Matter keeps all your cherished memories safe and accessible.</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">What memories and wisdom do you want to pass on to future generations? Relive your time spent traveling abroad or visiting your grandparents. Share your reflections about a foreign culture or a life lesson you learned. My Stories Matter keeps all your cherished memories safe and accessible.</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">Share your stories with the meaningful people in your life. Use our unique collaboration feature to co-write a shared memory and capture their perspectives or fill in any missing gaps. The storytelling never ends! </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-82ed3f29-7fff-db18-14ab-702d84cfc661">Preserve the stories of the people, events, and experiences that shaped who you are. By revisiting the past, you can discover more about yourself.</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ec6cd453-7fff-ec80-123a-04a7e6d58bbc"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="storytelling ">Sign up</a></b><b> for free today and start storytelling! </b></p>


4 Surprising Facts about Storytelling

<h1>How to Write Your Legacy Story </h1>
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<p>When you think of “legacy stories,” do famous movie stars or historical figures come to mind? </p>
<p>A legacy story is much more than that - they are the story of your life, for you can offer something no one else can. For example, your relationships, accomplishments, failures, personality, and values differentiate you from others.</p>
<p>A legacy story is much like an <a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-write-autobiography" title="legacy story ">autobiography</a> or memoir, except more flexible in the direction you want to go.</p>
<p>Free yourself from your inner critic and, with this guide, learn how to write your legacy story today!</p>
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<h1>What are the Benefits of Writing a Legacy Story? </h1>
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<p>A legacy story: </p>
<p>• impacts those around you, such as family or friends </p>
<p>• shows what’s truly important to you or how much you learned</p>
<p>• provides insight or closure </p>
<p>• shows someone how much they mean to you </p>
<p>According to <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/146623-if-you-would-not-be-forgotten-as-soon-as-you" title="legacy story ">Benjamin Franklin</a>, “If you would not be forgotten as soon as you are dead, write something worth reading or do something worth writing.” </p>
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<h1>Where to Begin? </h1>
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<p>Set time apart to sit down once a week (or a month) and jot down anything noteworthy about your life.</p>
<p>Don’t wait!</p>
<p>As we grow older, we <a href="https://order.nia.nih.gov/sites/default/files/2018-02/Understanding-Memory-Loss.pdf" title="legacy story ">remember less</a>, so it’s essential to get everything out now while it's still fresh! </p>
<p>Start small, such as a specific memory, vignette, or scene. Pretend you’re writing a letter to your friend without the added pressure behind the word “legacy.” It doesn’t have to be anything monumental. </p>
<p><a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/about" title="legacy story ">My Stories Matter</a> helps by asking specific questions, triggering the memory you want to recollect. </p>
<p>Some of these legacy-friendly prompts include: </p>
<p>• What are the most important lessons you learned in life? </p>
<p>• What is something you learned from a parent you never want to forget? </p>
<p>• Who has been a great inspiration to you? </p>
<p>• What is a significant risk you’ve taken in life? </p>
<p>• What was a tough obstacle in your life you had to overcome? </p>
<p>Answering questions like these will determine your legacy story and what you want to leave behind. </p>
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<h1>Get Organized </h1>
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<p>There is no right or wrong way to organize, but <a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/about" title="legacy story ">My Stories Matter</a> has a timeline feature that collects, categorizes your entries, backs up, and saves your work, entirely private for your eyes! </p>
<p>If you don’t feel comfortable writing down your memories, don’t worry! Our voice recorder has you covered. You can also have a close friend or family member transcribe your stories if needed. </p>
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<h1>Collaborate</h1>
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<p>As you write about the past, reach out to someone specific to your legacy story and invite them to participate in it, whether scuba diving, pranking neighbors as children, or graduating high school. </p>
<p>Don’t forget to check your facts! Are the dates, times, and events accurate? Family members or friends can help fill in the blanks.</p>
<p><a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/about" title="legacy story ">My Stories Matter</a> allows you to collaborate with anyone you choose. </p>
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<h1>Read and Listen </h1>
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<p>Reading or listening to others’ legacy stories will give you ideas. You can read strangers’ legacy stories on <a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/about" title="legacy story ">My Stories Matter</a> or someone famous whose life inspires you. These are usually in the form of <a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-write-autobiography" title="legacy story ">autobiographies</a>.</p>
<p>We all share everyday experiences and conflicts. People learn from each other, so when you write about how you overcome your life obstacles, you’re inspiring others how to as well. </p>
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<h1>Include Some Mementos  </h1>
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<p>If you’re struggling to remember particular memories you want to include in your legacy story, gather some souvenirs from the past, such as a keepsake. </p>
<p><a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24933516/" title="legacy story ">Mementos</a> help spark your memory. They can be <a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0956797617694868?journalCode=pssa" title="legacy story ">photographs</a>, postcards, letters, tickets, souvenirs, gifts, etc., helping your stories flow and putting the reader in your shoes. Upload these photos on <a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/about" title="legacy story ">My Stories Matter</a> and write around that memory. </p>
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<h1>Write Your Legacy Story on My Stories Matter </h1>
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<p><a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/about" title="legacy story ">My Stories Matter</a> is custom-built for your legacy story. You can add music, images, and text to your video or audio life story. Digital audio files can run along with family photos for an entertaining storyline. </p>
<p>A legacy story is vital because it’s a bit of your life written down, left to inspire. Many people wish they could have read the words of their grandparents, parents, aunts, or uncles who passed away and hadn’t told them much about their lives. </p>
<p>Don’t let your friends and family feel the same way! With a legacy story, you’ll always have the answers when your loved ones ask questions when you’re not around. </p>
<p>Your legacy story will live forever.</p>


How to Write Your Legacy Story

<h1>8 Creative Ways to Keep the Memory of a Loved One Alive </h1>
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<p>Contrary to what you might think, grieving is not a linear or even a <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5375020/" title="Grieving is not a five stage process">5 stage process</a>. There is <a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0030222816673489" title="No timetable for grief ">no timetable </a>for grief because not everyone copes with tragic events the <a href="https://www.public.asu.edu/~iacmao/PGS191/Resilience%20Reading%20%231A.pdf" title="No one mourns the same way">same way</a>. You deserve to find your unique way of grieving beyond the traditional funeral.</p>
<p>One study found that one-third of people most directly affected by a profound loss will <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1112778/#B2" title="People suffer over the memory of a loved one">suffer physically and mentally</a>. But despite this, loss can still <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1112778/" title="Loss can still foster maturity and growth">foster maturity and personal growth</a>. </p>
<p>For example, it’s essential to find ways to focus on the love and warmth your loved one’s presence brought to your life instead of the sadness their loss may cause. There are fewer painful ways to keep the memory of a loved one alive than visiting their resting place or flipping through old photos. </p>
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<h1>Have a Memorial Release </h1>
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<p>Release balloons, kites, butterflies, or doves in memory of a loved one. You can also blow bubbles in the wind or float flowers down a stream.</p>
<p>Physically releasing their souls is a symbolic gesture of not letting go but releasing your grief. Research suggests <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5030286/" title="Acting coping mechanism helps grief">active coping mechanisms </a>are most effective when dealing with grief-induced stress. Disengaged coping, such as avoiding your suffering, lessens your sense of control and psychological well-being. In other words, dynamically confronting your grief gives you more control and improved psychological well-being. </p>
<p>So light lanterns down a river, or host a nighttime vigil honoring their memory. Confronting your pain and then releasing it is crucial to preserving the memory of a loved one and finding your healing. </p>
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<h1>Plant a Garden in Their Memory </h1>
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<p>Creating a garden plot, whether wildflowers, daisies, or lilies, is an excellent way to honor the memory of a loved one. As author <a href="https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/james_m_barrie_106712" title="J.M. Barrie quote on memory">J.M. Barrie had said</a>: “God gave us memory so that we might have roses in December.” </p>
<p>Even if you’re not a gardener, having a botanic, hidden world is one of the best ways to live in your loved one’s memory. Gardening is <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29858428/" title="Gardening improves physical and mental health">beneficial to your physical and mental health</a>, especially during grief. </p>
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<h1>Create Something Special from Their Ashes </h1>
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<p>If your loved one was cremated, you could create something unique. It doesn’t have to be the traditional urn on the mantelpiece. You could plant a tree urn with your loved one’s ashes so when they grow into a sugar maple, weeping willow, or American elm, you can sit underneath them. Allow their memory to live on in nature.</p>
<p>Alternatively, turn their ashes into a cremation diamond, a ring, or a necklace. French artist <a href="https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/auguste_renoir_110211" title="Pierre Auguste Renoir on pain">Pierre Auguste Renoir said</a>: “The pain passes, but the beauty remains.” So it’s vital to choose anything that brings you more joy than sadness.</p>
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<h1>Keep an Heirloom with You</h1>
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	To preserve the memory of a loved one, turn their favorite coat into a blanket or pillows, or wear their wedding ring around your neck. That way, they’ll always be on your person. 
<p>Consider creating a keepsake (such as a locket of the two of you), or try upcycling, the process of “old” products being modified and transformed into “new” products. Examples are: </p>
<p>• Use their old cassette case to hold gift cards </p>
<p>• Turn an old briefcase into a bathroom cabinet </p>
<p>• Arrange vintage brooches into a bouquet</p>
<p>• Repurpose a bike wheel into a clock. </p>
<p>The ideas are endless. </p>
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<h1>Make a Charitable Donation in Your Loved One's Memory</h1>
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<p>Were they passionate about a cause? Donate a little to the charity or create a new one in memory of a loved one. </p>
<p>Giving can <a href="https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10902-020-00242-8" title="Giving boosts your mental and physical health">boost your mental and physical health</a>; much needed after a loss.  One study even found that people randomly assigned to spend money on others <a href="https://www.hbs.edu/ris/Publication%20Files/Norton_Michael_Spending%20money%20on%20others%20promotes%20happiness_ddd17e6e-fc21-438f-811e-62561cc97a18.pdf" title="People who gave had greater happiness">experienced greater happiness</a> than those who spent money on themselves. </p>
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<h1>Celebrate Their Birthday </h1>
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	Whether that's cooking their favorite dish or eating their favorite kind of cake, or doing the things they enjoyed doing, continuing this once-a-year tradition keeps the memory of a loved one alive like they never left. 
<p>The first birthday after they pass will be painful. To combat this, make it the joyous occasion it once was, complete with presents and balloons. Buy their favorite flowers, sprinkle the petals where their ashes or memories live, or post a loving tribute to them on <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Honor memory of a loved one on My Stories Matter">My Stories Matter</a>. Describe the experiences you used to have on their birthdays and the future ideas to continue those traditions.</p>
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<h1>Write Them a Letter, Poem, or Song </h1>
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<p>Is there anything you wished you had said to them before they passed? Is there anything on your mind currently? Update them on your day. </p>
<p>Even if you’re not a writer, poet or musician, express your thoughts to the person you love. For example, some people: </p>
<p>• Send text messages to their partner’s phone. </p>
<p>• Write a letter with their loved one’s favorite stationery.</p>
<p>• Write a postcard during their next vacation. </p>
<p>Journaling also <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0197455605000699?via%3Dihub" title="Journaling decreases psychological symptoms ">decreases psychological symptoms</a> such as anxiety and depression. You keep the memory of a loved alive, but you also inwardly move on because everything is off your chest. </p>
<p>Not sure where to write your thoughts? We created <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog" title="Honor the memory of a loved one on My Stories Matter">My Stories Matter</a> for you to write down everything. Your letters will be kept safe and personalized.  </p>
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<h1>Create a Life Stories Book </h1>
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<p>Creating a Life Stories Book is one of the best ways to keep the memory of a loved one alive because, thanks to you, their legacy will endure.</p>
<p>Write down details about their lives, such as their personalities, histories, and preferences. This keeps their memory alive for your children or grandchildren, so they will learn where they came from when they grow older.  Or write about the impact a good friend had on your life, how their life inspired and shaped you into the person you are today. </p>
<p>With <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog" title="Honor the memory of a loved one on My Stories Matter">My Stories Matter</a>, preserve the memory of a loved one with the appropriate photos, videos, news clips, and even their voice. You can also invite family and friends to add their contributions.</p>
<p>Grieving is not a straightforward, linear process. Keeping the memory of a loved one alive will look different for everyone, so find what speaks most to you and best represents the relationship you two had.</p>


8 Creative Ways to Keep the Memory of a Loved One Alive

<h1>How to Write an Autobiography </h1>
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<p>Autobiographies are the most powerful thing you can write about yourself due to their unmatched intimacy. The reader is getting a firsthand account of your life. </p>
<p>Autobiographies are particularly popular with readers as they provide valuable lessons on life and exciting solutions to how people have overcome unique problems. </p>
<p>There is always an autobiography trending these days, such as Matthew McConaughey’s “Greenlights.” Some even shake the world, such as “The Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass” or Anne Frank’s “Diary of a Young Girl.” </p>
<p>Stories are meant to be passed down through generations. They intend to preserve family histories. So if you want to pass down your legacy, you’ve come to the right place. </p>
<p>See our six tips on how to write the best autobiography. </p>
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<h1>Identify Your Audience </h1>
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	Every writer has a target audience. What type of readers will benefit from your story? What do you want to convey to them? 
<p>Start by writing out the significant events of your life you want to include. For example, what experience most shaped you into who you are today? What have you learned? This will reveal your story. </p>
<p>Choose a central theme for your story.</p>
<p>It can be:  </p>
<p>• The childhood story</p>
<p>• Coming of age story</p>
<p>• The falling in love story</p>
<p>A story of grief, conflict, or identity. </p>
<p>The story you tell will influence who your target audience is. Often, the theme of a story is a message about life. For example, why the author (you) wrote the story and what message you want to share with your readers.  </p>
<h1>Gain Inspiration from Others </h1>
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<p>Who is your role model? </p>
<p>Some examples of famous autobiographies include: </p>
<p>• “Agatha Christie: An Autobiography” by Agatha Christie </p>
<p>• “Mark Twain’s Own Autobiography” by Mark Twain</p>
<p>• “Chronicles: Volume 1” by Bob Dylan  </p>
<p>• “Born a Crime” by Trevor Noah </p>
<p>• “Bossypants” by Tina Fey</p>
<p>Thinking about your autobiography may make you feel overwhelmed and lost. The best thing to do is gain outside inspiration and read an autobiography of someone who interests you. </p>
<p><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog" title="Write Autobiography on My Stories Matter">My Stories Matter</a> is a great place to start writing your autobiography. If you experience writer’s block, parse through memories and feelings other people share on <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog" title="Write an Autobiography on My Stories Matter">My Stories Matter</a> every day. When writing about a particular story or event, you can invite people who were there to collaborate and fill in the gaps. Inspiration is something you must actively seek. “If your ship doesn’t come in, swim out to it” (<a href="https://due.com/blog/jonathan-winters-swim-out-to-meet-it/#:~:text=%E2%80%9CIf%20your%20ship%20doesn%27t,swim%20out%20to%20meet%20it!%E2%80%9D&amp;text=Winters%20reminds%20us%20of%20the,than%20taking%20control%20of%20it." title="Jonathan Winters on Inspiration ">Jonathan Winters</a>). </p>
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<h1>Create Your Timeline </h1>
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	Once you’ve identified your audience and read your role model’s work, it’s time to create a timeline for your autobiography! 
<p>To do this, list all the important events that happened to you. This is considered the “research” and “brainstorming” phase. What was your adolescence like? Your time at college? Career? A profound, life-altering moment?</p>
<p>Browsing the Timeline feature in <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog" title="My Stories Matter's Timeline Feature">My Stories Matter</a>, you can see your memories and life events organized in an intuitive chronological feed. You can focus on writing and reminiscing while your memories are automatically categorized for easy viewing.</p>
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<h1>Get Everything Out! </h1>
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<p>Write first, revise later. First drafts are always messy but crucial. Don’t worry about length, flow, etc. It’s also important not to feel self-conscious writing first drafts. The first draft is only for your eyes. The more you write, the better your writing will be. </p>
<p>Try <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=juEeUg0groU" title="Try Free Association writing when writing your autobiography">Free Association</a> writing if you’re stumped on ideas or feel self-conscious. Devised by Sigmund Freud, this method gets all of your thoughts out on paper without thinking about what you’re writing. </p>
<p>Much like <a href="https://learning.blogs.nytimes.com/2014/11/13/500-prompts-for-narrative-and-personal-writing/" title="New York Times' prompts ">The New York Times’ advice</a>, <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog" title="My Stories Matter's prompts help write an autobiography">My Stories Matter</a>’s prompts will get you started and help you write an unforgettable autobiography. You’ll better recall memories with ease. </p>
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<h1>Edit, Edit, Edit! </h1>
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<p>Once you have the first draft, it’s time to revise your work! Spelling <a href="https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10648-021-09611-y" title="Spelling matters ">matters</a>. Poor grammar and sentence structure could easily dissuade your readers and damage your credibility. </p>
<p>One study found that 7 in 10 adults, or 71%, <a href="https://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/four-out-of-five-adults-consider-themselves-to-be-good-spellers-yet-large-majority-often-find-spelling-mistakes-from-others-300130935.html" title="Spelling mistakes are common ">frequently find spelling mistakes</a> others make. When proofreading our work, we <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23931599/" title="We don't see our typos when writing ">don’t see our typos</a> because what we see on the screen competes with the version in our heads. Therefore, <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23931599/" title="Make your autobiography unfamiliar font">research</a> urges you to make your work as unfamiliar as possible, such as changing the font or background color to better catch typos. </p>
<p>Good grammar will keep your audience interested in your autobiography. Thankfully, many tools and resources help, such as <a href="https://app.grammarly.com/" title="Use Grammarly for autobiography">Grammarly </a>or <a href="https://www.gingersoftware.com/grammarcheck" title="Use Ginger for your autobiography">Ginger.</a> You can hire a professional editor or even have a trusted friend or family member check your work. </p>
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<h1>Get Feedback </h1>
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<p>Many famous historical figures had a second pair of eyes looking over and collaborating on their autobiographies, such as Andrew Mortain in Princess Diana’s groundbreaking “Diana: Her True Story - in Her Own Words” or Alex Haley in Malcolm X’s “The Autobiography of Malcolm X.” </p>
<p>Reading too long on your screen drains you mentally, making <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0747563204000202" title="Reading too long makes it harder to remember">it harder to remember</a> what you read once you’re done. It’s vital to have a second pair of eyes reading through your autobiography, pinpointing spelling or content flaws.</p>
<p>Feedback adds perspective to your autobiography. </p>
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<h1>Write Your Autobiography on My Stories Matter<a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Write your autobiography on My Stories Matter"> </a></h1>
<p>Your life has something to offer this world, someone to inspire. Many people will relate to your experiences. As Stephen King <a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/82850-a-little-talent-is-a-good-thing-to-have-if%23:~:text%3DQuotes%2520%253E%2520Quotable%2520Quote-,%25E2%2580%259CA%2520little%2520talent%2520is%2520a%2520good%2520thing%2520to%2520have%2520if,ability%2520to%2520remember%2520every%2520scar.%25E2%2580%259D&amp;sa=D&amp;source=docs&amp;ust=1648597324724665&amp;usg=AOvVaw36yAxH7n3mcokUdv-EBu5p" title="Stephen King on talent ">states</a>: “A little talent is a good thing to have if you want to be a writer. But the only real requirement is the ability to remember every scar.” </p>
<p>Not sure where to write your autobiography? Try <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog" title="Write your autobiography on My Stories Matter">My Stories Matter</a>, a safe, effective way to begin recording your life story.</p>


How to Write an Autobiography

<h1>5 Tips for Collecting Family Stories </h1>
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<p>The pandemic has taken an emotional toll on families. Since March of 2020, 27% of parents <a href="https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article/146/4/e2020016824/79686/Well-being-of-Parents-and-Children-During-the" title="Parents reported worsening mental health">reported worsening mental health</a>, and 14% <a href="https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article/146/4/e2020016824/79686/Well-being-of-Parents-and-Children-During-the" title="Parents reported worsening behavior health">reported worsening behavioral health</a> of their children. It's important to reconnect and rekindle our family bonds now more than ever. </p>
<p>Children who are told family stories have <a href="https://news.emory.edu/stories/2020/04/esc_covid_19_family_stories/campus.html" title="Children told family stories have better self-esteem ">better self-esteem</a>, <a href="https://news.emory.edu/stories/2020/04/esc_covid_19_family_stories/campus.html" title="Children told family stories have higher levels of social competence">higher levels of social competence</a>, <a href="https://news.emory.edu/stories/2020/04/esc_covid_19_family_stories/campus.html" title="Children told family stories have more quality friendships ">quality friendships</a>, <a href="https://news.emory.edu/stories/2020/04/esc_covid_19_family_stories/campus.html" title="Children told family stories have less anxiety and stress">less anxiety, stress</a>, and <a href="https://news.emory.edu/stories/2020/04/esc_covid_19_family_stories/campus.html" title="Children told family stories have fewer behavioral problems">behavioral problems</a>. Unfortunately, many family stories get lost through the generations. One should not forget activities like decorating the Christmas tree, camping, watching a favorite movie, or playing charades.</p>
<p>So how do we keep these bonds and traditions alive? Here are some tips for collecting family stories.  </p>
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<h1>Find Inspiration from Story Prompts </h1>
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<p>Grandma and Grandpa may have a lot of wisdom to share but may not know which stories to tell first. Our prompts feature helps you or your grandparents begin telling stories by asking specific questions, <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/intense-emotions-and-strong-feelings/201711/being-triggered-how-emotional-memories-affect-us" title="Questions trigger memories">triggering</a> memories. These memories can be about childhood, time in the military, or their first time abroad. </p>
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<p>Make Your Family Stories Private</p>
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	We created <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Write your family stories on My Stories Matter">My Stories Matter</a> to go against the trend of every social media platform selling your data. <a href="https://www.cbsnews.com/news/millions-facebook-user-records-exposed-amazon-cloud-server/" title="Social media apps under criminal investigation ">Unlike the social media apps under federal criminal investigation for data breaches</a>, we protect your information. Only you can choose who sees your family stories when you add a memory.
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<h1>Collaborate with Your Family </h1>
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	Whether grandma is sitting next to you or just a short drive away, everybody can share stories with our collaboration feature! They can contribute photos, audio clips, or videos to help complete that memory. By inviting your family to collaborate, that particular moment in time becomes whole. 
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<h1>Organize Your Family Stories</h1>
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<p>We remember only a limited amount of things from our lives but research indicates that <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0079742108605162" title="Staying organized helps retain memories">staying organized</a> is critical to retaining memories. <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Write your family stories on My Stories Matter">My Stories Matter</a>, for example, allows you to post your family stories in chronological order in your timeline. </p>
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<h1>Categorize Your Family Stories </h1>
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<p>Categorization is essential because it allows you to group family stories. Otherwise, it takes time to navigate everything. Unlike “organization,” “categorization” identifies or divides into classes, labeling. <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Write your family stories on My Stories Matter">My Stories Matter</a>’s Collections feature categorizes for you by labeling specific family stories into their respective folders. </p>
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<h1>In a Rush Jotting Down a Memory?</h1>
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<p>Hearing yourself speaking out loud <a href="https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/12/171201090940.htm" title="Speaking aloud improves your memory">improves your memory</a>. With the voice recording function in our mobile app, you can record on the go, so you don’t lose your train of thought. Once your voice records, people can hear you tell your family stories. You can also capture the stories of family members who have difficulties typing. </p>
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<p>Questions? We have more information about how you can record your family stories on <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Write your family stories on My Stories Matter">My Stories Matter</a>.</p>


Updated 03/30/2022

5 Tips For Collecting Family Stories

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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-5f0b1f2d-7fff-c02f-890f-95819b4f4133">Have you ever noticed that listening to songs from your childhood makes you nostalgic? Or how the smell of a family recipe reminds you of summers at your grandparents? </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-5f0b1f2d-7fff-c02f-890f-95819b4f4133">Believe it or not, we can resurface our life stories by revisiting songs, sights, and smells associated with experiences! </b></p>
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<h1 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-41f08a60-7fff-0fdb-a4d8-0914baf668f3">Do you remember your favorite old Songs?</b></h1>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-41f08a60-7fff-0fdb-a4d8-0914baf668f3"> Sometimes those memory cues are a little too far, so to help you out, we have a digital memory lane at My Stories Matter that you can “walk” down. With playable songs on our timeline in the sidebar and pictures of nostalgic movies and events, it’s sure to help you remember many life stories. We discuss this concept more in-depth in <a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/blog/tapping-memories-music" title="life stories">our other blog post</a>.</b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-46b2e4cc-7fff-c58d-d16a-3e7a573119ba">Did something pop up in your head? It is on the top right of your screen. You will find it in the same spot on our mobile app! Use MindPops to jot it down and finish it later.</b></p>
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<h1 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-c39a9603-7fff-a406-ea0c-99100308dbeb">Who has the correct version of the event?</b></h1>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-c39a9603-7fff-a406-ea0c-99100308dbeb">Noone’s memory is perfect. Most of our best life stories are ones we made with other people. If we work together, we can help paint the best picture of the memory. Collaboration can be found on the right side when you click ‘add a memory. </b></p>
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<h1 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-50b3c5a5-7fff-da95-8c90-af0b3f34bcb2">Don’t worry about perfection</b></h1>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-50b3c5a5-7fff-da95-8c90-af0b3f34bcb2">While grammar and spelling are essential in an academic and professional setting, it doesn't matter on My Stories Matter when capturing your life stories. Only you can choose who sees your personal life lessons when you add memory. We do not currently nor plan to sell your information to anyone.</b></p>
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<h1 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-9ec9c5cb-7fff-e612-50fe-e3c866144c61">Organize into Collections</b></h1>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9ec9c5cb-7fff-e612-50fe-e3c866144c61">Group your memories into different categories! Like how you have folders of your dog pictures, you can also categorize your memories! Like your memories, we keep your memory collections private so only those you allow can see them.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9ec9c5cb-7fff-e612-50fe-e3c866144c61">Want to know more? Sign up at <a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/user/register" title="life stories">MyStoriesMatter</a> today! You can also reach out to us for any questions or comments.</b></p>
